Life Person Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Hi again everyone, It's been a little more than 4 months since my break-up (story here). In short, my girlfriend seemed to have a bout of GIGS and left me for another person. After a couple of months trying the "lets be friends" routine, I found out it was only hurting me more, so I told her I wanted to go NC. As expected it was hard to maintain NC at first, but eventually I started to miss my ex-gf a bit less, and it gradually became easier, and now I can go for days without actually missing her in my life. I've also started to hang out more with people and be more social, and things have generally gone up, although I still have a good number of depressed days, and I would say I still have a long way to go to be over her. But I'll be patient, things have gone up, and hopefully they will continue to be. So to everyone out there suffering, it does get better if you start doing stuff, hang out with people, re-discover what makes you happy, and above all, and like everyone says, GO NO CONTACT! However, my ex won't let go of throwing me breadcrumbs! Even before going NC, she told me things that gave me glimmers of hope, and since I went NC she has sent me a long email telling me about her life and saying how she's crazy because I don't talk to her, once she went to an event I was attending (almost certainly to see me, although she said otherwise) and a few days ago she texted me again with random events from her life. Just leave me alone...
CopingGal Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Seriously, you have to be firm. Do what you have to do to maintain NC- close your email account and get a new one, change your number, etc. Let her know you mean business. If she still continues to contact and torture you, let her know that you will call the police. Seriously, you have to be firm with people like that, I speak from experience.
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