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WildHorses Established Member

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Why don't you take the time to read this entire thread before you start spouting your meaningless drivel? Jerk!!!

 

No, not a jerk, I'm just calling it like I see it. Honey, you did the "crime." I'm actually a very sweet person. If you have in fact stopped the infidelity, that is wonderful. Hopefully you learned something from it, and will not do that again. It damages people. I will not be sensitive to this issue. I find it trashy. If there are other things going on in your life, well, I wish you the best.

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Why don't you take the time to read this entire thread before you start spouting your meaningless drivel? Jerk!!!

 

I will be praying for you and your family, however. That is a vary hard thing to go through. I have lost a few members of my family to Cancer.

 

 

I also know the pain that my aunt is in, being involved with a married man. She is also 60 years old, and just lost her sister to lung cancer last year. There has been a lot going on in her life. But, with this affair she is having, it's not making anything any better.

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Hi Miss Bailey!!!!!!

 

Sending you hugs and prayers and love.......How is everyone doing today?

Can your sister go outside? It is such a beautiful day here in the east...Some sunshine would probably do her very good.......

 

Love.........................

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I will be praying for you and your family, however. That is a vary hard thing to go through. I have lost a few members of my family to Cancer.

 

 

I also know the pain that my aunt is in, being involved with a married man. She is also 60 years old, and just lost her sister to lung cancer last year. There has been a lot going on in her life. But, with this affair she is having, it's not making anything any better.

 

Wildhorses....If I have read correctly....her R with MM is over....he is now XMM!!!!!!!

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Wildhorses....If I have read correctly....her R with MM is over....he is now XMM!!!!!!!

 

What does XXM mean? I read through the posts on this thread. I did not see anywhere where it stated she was done with him. If that is the case, that is wonderful that she is moving forward, to find peace in her life. I did read that she has gone to see a therapist which is awesome, I was seeing one recently, and enjoyed it. Want to find an new one. I feel everybody should have one, maybe just because my experience was so positive.

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What does XXM mean? I read through the posts on this thread. I did not see anywhere where it stated she was done with him. If that is the case, that is wonderful that she is moving forward, to find peace in her life. I did read that she has gone to see a therapist which is awesome, I was seeing one recently, and enjoyed it. Want to find an new one. I feel everybody should have one, maybe just because my experience was so positive.

 

XMM means ex married man.....hope this helps.

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XMM means ex married man.....hope this helps.

 

It doesn't. ;)

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Thank you, kind folks. My sister is declining each day. She can barely eat and she is in a great deal of pain. It is a matter of weeks before we lose her. I can barely describe the grief I feel.....I wish I could take her outside but, the liver cancer has caused an abdominal distension that makes it very hard for her to sit up.

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Thank you, kind folks. My sister is declining each day. She can barely eat and she is in a great deal of pain. It is a matter of weeks before we lose her. I can barely describe the grief I feel.....I wish I could take her outside but, the liver cancer has caused an abdominal distension that makes it very hard for her to sit up.

 

 

Whatever you say. I'm judging bad behavior, not who you are as a person. I'm sure you have a good heart. I'm also not a jerk. Sounds like you do a bit of judging yourself as well. I wish you and your family the best. And, I hope in your future, you choose to stay away from married men.

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Whatever you say. I'm judging bad behavior, not who you are as a person. I'm sure you have a good heart. I'm also not a jerk. Sounds like you do a bit of judging yourself as well. I wish you and your family the best. And, I hope in your future, you choose to stay away from married men.

 

 

Why would you judge anyway? Haven't you done something in your life that you may not be proud of? I think we all have at one time or another! I think Miss Bailey deserves a pass on this one....She is going though HELL and I don't think she needs advice from anyone regarding her love life....

 

Hugs....

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It doesn't. ;)

 

 

Oh I am sorry...weren't you seeking the definition of xmm? Did I miss something?

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Why would you judge anyway? Haven't you done something in your life that you may not be proud of? I think we all have at one time or another! I think Miss Bailey deserves a pass on this one....She is going though HELL and I don't think she needs advice from anyone regarding her love life....

 

Hugs....

 

I love you, Lost! Thanks for the support.

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Why would you judge anyway? Haven't you done something in your life that you may not be proud of? I think we all have at one time or another! I think Miss Bailey deserves a pass on this one....She is going though HELL and I don't think she needs advice from anyone regarding her love life....

 

Hugs....

 

I'm not here to speak about her sister or her dog. I'm referring to the affair. I don't pity those that put themselves in these situations. Nobody is perfect, you have that right!

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bailey...

I'm sorry your sister has gotten worse. I hope that you will be able to continue to be there for her for the time that you have left with her...i bet you being there means more to her than you will ever know...but i also expect that it's terribly hard to watch the sister you love wither away, ut know that you are doing your best for her...and she knows that, and the love that you give her now will mean so much to her ( and to you too)

 

like i said before...you can take comfort in the fact that you've done everything you can to make whatever time your sister has left a time that's filled with love...even when there's nothing you can say, if you are just able to hold her hand, she'll know she's not alone and she's loved so very much by you and your family

 

sometimes, the most you can do for someone is to give them a good and peaceful death, full of love...and that's just what you are doing for your sister...and her story has touched the hearts of a group of people she will never know....but we think of her, think of you, and hope you are able to find peace

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Thank you, Sprouts.......hearing from you and Lost repaired a lot of damage done by someone who doesn't deserve the power I gave her.

 

M is getting weaker day by day but, I feel it is a privilege to be here for her.

The hospice is as close to heaven as I think you can get here on earth.

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My sister is in the final stage of dying....may God rest her soul.

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My sister is in the final stage of dying....may God rest her soul.

 

 

Good Morning Miss Bailey!

 

I don't know what to say? Yes, me, at a loss for words! But listen...she is going to a beautiful place..Heaven!! We are the ones who are suffering! She will be playing BINGO with Jesus soon!

 

Hang in there! Be present in the moment with her as best as you can be!

 

Please kiss her for me and tell her I will be meeting her someday also!

 

Love and Hugs...............

 

HOSPICE is such a Wonderful Thing! Angels on Earth!!!!

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No more pain and suffering.

 

Hugs and prayers to you and your family. I'm so sorry.

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My sister is in the final stage of dying....may God rest her soul.

 

I'm so sorry...not much I can say will take your sadness away...

 

her pain is almost at an end, and you're with her...she is loved

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Hi Bailey...

just stopping by to say hello and to see how you are doing...

I know this is a really rough time for you...I'm thinking of you, and I expect many others are as well

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HOSPICE is such a Wonderful Thing! Angels on Earth!!!!

 

Yes they are. This has been a difficult month for me as it marks a year that my family lost a very dear member. She was like my son's second mother. When I read about you Bailey sitting with your sister it takes me back to sitting quietly beside my loved one near the end. It's such an effed up feeling coz you don't want to lose them but don't want them to suffer anymore either.

 

My loved one was given 6 months and put on hospice and she died within two weeks. And she had been on a cruise vacation the previous month thriving and well. She went quickly and that was very difficult to deal with. It seems the same for your sister. So though it doesn't help much, just know that you aren't the only one to go through such pain.

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My sister died today at 3:30 PM on the 44th anniversary of my Mother's suicide.......may God rest her soul.

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God bless her soul. She's at peace now and thankfully she didn't suffer for months and months with this horrible f**k'ing disease.

 

My thoughts are with you and your family, lots of hugs to you.. I hope you continue to post here, or maybe start another thread (put in here so others can find it) in the Coping section, you'll get tons of support there. Grieving the loss of a loved one is hard so please reach out.

 

Very symbolic with the dates..And I am sorry about your mom.

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So sorry for your loss bailey. Sincerest condolences to you and your family. :(

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Oh Bailey - my heart is heavy for you right now. I'm praying you have some strength and courage left in you to move forward - even a little each day - knowing that she would want that for you.

 

Big hugs to you! ((((((Bailey))))))

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