Sheesh Posted January 6, 2012 Posted January 6, 2012 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3683502#post3683502 That was my first post..guest it has been a few months...since I hadn't talked to her... Well Christmas day..I get a text..of course Merry Christmas...Me I replied...I also pocket dialed her by accident truly and she called back I did not answer but texted letting her know that it was an accident etc..so we texted and I was a dick lol but hey they way she went about things...I didn't care... Anyways New Years was my B-day and I was chilling with some buddies and having a few brews..she sends me a text saying happy b day etc and happy new year..I waited a while and texted back but that was it... Next morning I woke up and I had this text from her saying she was sorry about what she did etc and that she was begin shady etc..lol I waited a while and texted back etc I don't quite remember what..but then she goes on about how she missed me and being around me etc..and that she wished she hadn't ruined what we had etc lol..I was like wtf... she said she wanted me back and for things to be the way they used to be... So this past Tuesday she met me in town and we had dinner etc..drank a little and out in the parking lot we were making out etc.. Idk what to do here b/c right now as I am typing this..we were supposed to be meeting up but she texted and said that she out of town with her mom and that she didn't know that she wasn't gonna be able to meet up with me etc...so idk what to do here... I am 22 and she is 25 friggin..she say's one thing and does another..I need help! lol things get so confusing for me when it comes to these types of things...how should I go about getting back with her etc..if she really does want that..I would like it! She is a great Woman..but I don't like some of the things that she does..Help please!
BoredAgain Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 I went back and skimmed your last post and I'm curious, how long were you two dating? I ask because she comes across as somewhat of a flaky/wishy-washy person the way you describe her. Either way, whenever a dumper says they want "things to be the way they used to be" it raises a Red Flag for me. Remember, "the way things used to be" resulted in her dumping you. She may want that now, but when she gets there she may just dump you again! I'm guessing you don't want that. So proceed with caution, and make sure whatever caused the breakup last time has been resolved.
Author Sheesh Posted January 7, 2012 Author Posted January 7, 2012 Only a few months...I really don't know what caused us to split etc..wasn't me! I guess we need to sit down and have a long talk? But these few months were friggin amazing! I must add lol
BoredAgain Posted January 7, 2012 Posted January 7, 2012 Yeah, I sort of suspected that it wasn't too long. The thing is, the first few months (or even the first couple years) of many relationships are often described as "friggin amazing" (or equivalent). It's the honeymoon phase. You have all sorts of chemicals swirling through your head, making you practically obsessed with each other. Feel free to wikipedia "limerence" for more info. But the obvious question is this: if the relationship ended after a few months, do you really a long-term reconciliation (where you're still together years from now) is possible? I really doubt it. So, I'd take any reconciliation attempt with a grain of salt...
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