What happened?

Well let me start by saying this was a almost a dream girl..a few things here and there..and she would almost have been perfect lol I didn't even know who she was and she added me on facebook, of course I get a girl that looked like here wanting to add me on facebook and of course I accepted. Turns out the previous weekend she had came into a resteraunt where I was, here two half brother I went to school with and played footbal with. I don't even know if I talked to here or anything but I remember looking over at the table and seeing this beautiful blonde hair and saying wow who is that. Well after accepting the request she messaged me etc..so for about a week I kinda dragged out the conversation trying to play with here mind a bit, but we chatted and I got her number and we agreed that we should hang out sometime. So I went and picked her up we went out to eat etc had a nice time etc. So when I dropped her off asked if she wanted to hang out again and she said yes!

So of course we hung out a few more times here and there..we would text etc...I would go over to her place two or three times a week...she loved sports we would watch football and movies etc. So after a few weeks one night I was leaving, we were kissing etc and I asked her if she wanted to make it official with me and her? She said she had been wondering when I was going to ask that..I just didn't want to leave any room or oppurtunity for another guy to take her from me, we just got along great had no problem talking, had fun and alot in common.

So on a tuesday night I went over and we chilled...I was leaving we were out in her yard, making out etc and I told her I would see her friday b/c it was her b day and we were going to go out and have fun. Just me and her. So of course I ordered her flowers etc and everything was set. I was moving to a new place that friday but I got everything done and could not wait to see her. So that afternoon around three I called no answer..waited a couple hours..call no answer..so finally I texted her. She replied you can do your own thing tonight I am going out with my family. She said she didn't get my flowers or anything. Over a hundred dollars I spent and they didn't get them to her work on time! She was busy the rest of the weekend and I was working..this is where all the trouble started with the flowers. So the company was going to redeliver them on monday b/c she was busy wasn't going to be home etc...well monday rolls around still no flowers...I cancelled the order. Finally that following wednesday they were redelivered. Might I say in between this time...she said it wasn't a big deal and everything was cool. I even went to her house and dropped her off a card and some chocolates plus a gift.

When she got it we talked..said she couldn't believe I went there and didn't knock etc. She said she missed me and I know I was missing her. Well finally after that she started ignoring me etc...I called no reply short with text etc. So idk....finally I texted her I wanted to know what was the deal after like a week with little talk text and no seeing each other...her reply" was that she had high standards and wanted someone that brings out the best in her" I just don't understand what happened where this came from the change of heart..we were always happy together..only like a month and a half lol but still I felt she was falling for me and I know I was for her..

This Women motivated me to get up early work harder and do things faster just to see and be with her..Some more info though that I think may have been a factor was she was twenty five and I am only twenty one...she has already graduated college and I have not yet finished...though about half way done..but in school atm...though I am planning on finishing soon enough. I have a good salaried job..but am trying to catch up on student loans plus having family issues though they don't affect me...she had been engaged in the past..but the guy cheated on her..so I knew she may have a wall that she would throw up. I just don't understand how one night everything is great and three days later it's whatever!

We never really talked about things she wanted in the near or far future on either side...me or her..I didn't thing that was something that she would want to talk about just yet. Is it that she is looking for someone to marry and pop out some babies? lol or what..Me nowhere near that part of my life I want to finish school and travel etc...does she want cash on hand and not credit lol?

Idk just perplexed at what happened and how things went south so quickly...really sucks because she was a great female..and I thought things were going great...she has even blocked me on facebook now lol and I didn't even do anything like mean or crazy lol I only called her and wanted to know what the deal was...which she never came out and said which I think is kinda weak. Though she let me figure it out..idk just don't understand women I guess. I am twenty one and have had two relationships last just under and over two years...but none ended like this...though idk if you would call this that b/c it was just beginning....

Thoughts would be appreciated,

Thanks

p.s I know it is a long story but had to get it off my back..been bothering me...for the last week or so...

You got used. I could go into detail but suffice it to say there is more to the story. Cut your losses and don't talk to her again.