zetkin Posted December 1, 2011 Posted December 1, 2011 I broke up with my boyfriend; the whole story if anyone is interested (although even that is just a short summary) is here Anyway, the thing is that we both felt very serious about each other. Moreover, we both have never felt like this with anyone before, and I think you don't often meet special people in your life. Many things happened to us when we were still not such a long time (5 month) - together. He decided to leave and go home, really far away, which aroused many smaller issues and problems. We were trying to fight for our relationship for another 3 month, as it seemed worth this struggle. But I guess it was not strong enough yet and in the end we broke up. Do you think, it is possible to try again in a while, when everything calms down, and offence and mistrust will be forgotten? Do you have examples when giving a second chance was a right decision?
Million.to.1 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 After reading your story, i would say, No. You should move on. LDR are hard, and sometimes reality is different than we imagined it to be, for both parties. It didn't sound like a nice relationship anyway. It really shouldn't be that hard. When to people want to be together, they are, and they are happy. Constant arguing is a sign of much deeper problems and those, unfortunately, aren't going to just disappear. I know it's hard, but you need to stop hanging on and go NO CONTACT. Be strong, and try and move forward with your life without him in it.
mike588 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 LDRs are tough. Myself personally I would never be involved in one,, I want to see, to be with that person often.
Author zetkin Posted December 2, 2011 Author Posted December 2, 2011 And not only in LDR? Is a second chance a good decision or the biggest mistake?
Million.to.1 Posted December 2, 2011 Posted December 2, 2011 The biggest mistake! But do it anyway... and come crying back here when it all turns to ****.
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