thebig-guy Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 (edited) Hi, heres my story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t299757/?highlight=thebig-guy Gf works abroad, she finished with me around 2 weeks ago, I havent heard a peep from her... Can anyone offer me some support on this? I feel like ive had a relapse after having a great week of being single, I even posted not long ago about how happy i was to be single!! Now im going down hill again... Im so suprised that this girl who literally said she loved me every day has completely forgotten about me . Her last words to me were 'make sure you keep in touch'. Im just so shocked how she is dealing with this so well, i mean maybe she did want the breakup but i cant believe ive heard nothing from her for weeks? Do you think im right in saying theres probably someone else whos replaced me? because shes a very needy girl and relied on me most of the time to keep her happy.... Any advice is gold to me at the moment, because i no longer talk to friends about it (because they're sick of hearing it) and i have noone else to take my mind off this person.. :/ Edited October 14, 2011 by thebig-guy
Chi townD Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 because shes a very needy girl and relied on me most of the time to keep her happy.... :/ To me, that's the definition of a parasite. And if she found a new host to latch on to, then you should feel sorry for the SOB that's stuck with her. NC is EXETREMELY hard in the beginning. You constantly think about her and you go through all of these emotions about the break up. That's normal. It's even worse when they try to contact you and you do your best to ignore them. But, I can say this with certainity. One morning you're going to wake up and she won't be the first thing running through your head. That's when you start to heal. Just hang in there!
Author thebig-guy Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 im really trying to hang in there, thanks buddy. Well at least its friday. I seem to be fine through the weekends when im out socializing. Its just during the week. ive found myself recently talking to myself or shouting "come on you can do this!!!" its crazy how women mess with your head!
flyguy23 Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 Yeah I am in the same boat. Dated a girl for 5 years and she just dropped me like a bad habit. No breadcrumbs, no contact at all for weeks now. It sucks to feel so unwanted by someone you thought loved you for a long time. The weekends are hardest because thats when I start to think of her with some other guy forgetting about me.
Author thebig-guy Posted October 14, 2011 Author Posted October 14, 2011 well you know what, it probably does involve other guys. Because i know from personal experience that when another woman is on the scene i can completely remove the ex from my head. Whether or not this 'new' partner of theirs is going to last is a different story. But now i think of it, its probably a good thing we've been dropped completely?? I mean i wouldnt exactly want my ex to be sending the odd message or call asking how i am because it would only prolong getting over her right???
CaliBabe Posted October 14, 2011 Posted October 14, 2011 NC gets easier each and every day. Stick with it! It's been 5 months for me, whoop whoop!
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