denise_xo Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 - men who want children - macho/ alpha men - men with traditional gender views - men who have frequently seen prostitutes - men who stand very far from me in terms of political outlook - men who do not have a love of learning - men who are not mobile
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 With me it's not really one thing it's more like if one of these things apply I bail: unattractive (body, facial features, teeth & skin included) bald/future baldy fat/overweight/obese bad breath short...less than 5'10'' small/average size junk virgin history of cheating criminal record disabled mentally unstable alcohol/drug use If I had to narrow it would still be a tie between virgin & junk size.
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Why would you want to get with a woman who is going to discriminate against you because of your height? I mean seriously who wants torn curtains anyway? Weren't you just going off on someone who picked at your preferences. Is it preferences when it's your standards but discrimination when it's others standards that you don't fit? Or are you fair and consider your preferences discrimination and also include I mean seriously who wants In A Rut as well in that thought process?
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I was trying to make sumdude feel better, you blithering idiot. Apparently you're the blithering idiot if you didn't think you could make sumdude81 feel better without insulting torn_curtains. Why would you want to get with a woman who is going to discriminate against you because of your height? I mean seriously who wants torn curtains anyway? Most likely your post wasn't all just to make him feel better since you called it discrimination and rather sprinkled with your negative emotional response to her preference since you're short. Hence why you dodged me question your whole my likes are preferences/standards but her likes are discrimination bs.
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I was trying to make sumdude feel better, you blithering idiot. He is clearly hung up about his height, so I am trying to make him realise that it's no big deal and I'm delighted you posted your preferences, the thought of ending up with a woman like you would make me want to jump off a cliff. By putting someone else down? So very classy. --- did you jump off that cliff yet? I'd recommend sorting out your issues first. There's really no reason for you to want to jump off a cliff based on something you don't even know about :confused: Drama kings, goodness.
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I was trying to make sumdude feel better, you blithering idiot. He is clearly hung up about his height, so I am trying to make him realise that it's no big deal and I'm delighted you posted your preferences, the thought of ending up with a woman like you would make me want to jump off a cliff. I saw you edited your post. If you were truly trying to make him realize it's no big deal you could have done it by stating that those were her preferences and that there are girls without those preferences. That in fact often times emotions/connection overrule a girls preferences. Instead your negative emotional response lead to you calling her preferences discrimination and saying who would want torn_curtains anyway. Then when question on if you consider your preferences discrimination and also think who would want In A Rut anyway you just dodge with an insult. As for ending up with a woman like me....lmfao my preferences rule you out so I'm not missing out on anything. It's no loss for me when I wouldn't have even considered you. It's a win-win situation for us both. Besides the virgin & d*ck size & baldness my preferences aren't any different from what other posters have stated: With me it's not really one thing it's more like if one of these things apply I bail: unattractive (body, facial features, teeth & skin included) bald/future baldy fat/overweight/obese bad breath short...less than 5'10'' small/average size junk virgin history of cheating criminal record disabled mentally unstable alcohol/drug use Though I think I might be the first to mention bad breath...so maybe besides baldness & d*ck size & virgin & bad breath my preferences aren't any different from the rest of the posters.
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Who did I put down? I haven't put anybody down. I take it sarcasm isn't your forte? I suggest you learn what the definition is in regard to sarcasm and learn to apply this simple wit to your daily life. Also, what issues do I have exactly? I was trying to help out a fellow man who feels he is being unfairly discriminated against based on his height. Ah so know you're going it wasn't an insult or a put down but sarcasm. So did you was the whole height preference = discrimination also sacrasm? You're boring mate, jog on. I will. Ignore the post following yours as I posted the time I saw your edited post and didn't see these new posts like OnxySnowfalls
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Sorry am I supposed to have read what you've posted? I haven't read anything from that last reply, Pixie and I am not going to either. It's probably waffle that matters not one iota to me. LMAO XD I just saw this. Okay lil guy. I'd prefer being a pixie versus being in a rut and having to put down others and call their preferences discrimination then when called on my bs claim it was sarcasm.
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Who did I put down? I haven't put anybody down. Are you really oblivious? If you cannot tell what a put-down is, that is one of your issues. I mean seriously who wants torn curtains anyway? Yes, because that is flattering and or somehow an assertion of indifference. I take it sarcasm isn't your forte? I suggest you learn what the definition is in regard to sarcasm and learn to apply this simple wit to your daily life. Also, what issues do I have exactly? Sarcasm? Even if it is not my forte, it wasn't then intended --- I was being quite serious --- if you think the "thought" (which you clearly had) of being with someone, whom it seems you've never even met, makes you want to "jump off a cliff"... you're acting like a dramatic toddler. Maybe you meant to state "If I ended up with you..." rather than the "thought of"... either way, it's fail, because you don't know "who" they are. I really doubt it's going to "hurt" the person it was poorly directed to I was trying to help out a fellow man who feels he is being unfairly discriminated against based on his height. and udolipixie was rightly pointing out that you're a sad hypocrite. LOL really? You already stated that it's all fair to discriminate against... your "help" is not congruent with: I don't need to tell you the reasons I won't date out of my race. Who I choose to date is of nobody else's business except my own. something congruent would be more akin to: Hey it's her right if she doesn't want to be intimate with a shorter man (you know... just like it is yours, in regards to race).
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Delightful, wonderful, excellent. Thanks for the boring lecture, but I've got better things that I could be doing then reading waffle on a computer screen. Toodle Pip. x If you truly did, you wouldn't feel the need to post this at all ... keep trying though :eek:, your continuous contradictions/projections are wonderful.
allina Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 racist/bigoted/homophobic has kids/baby mamma uneducated criminal record takes government handouts fat lazy boring druggy bitter
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 racist/bigoted/homophobic What's the difference between racist/homophobic & bigoted to you? Not questioning you're preferences just curious about your definitions.
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Where have I said that this isn't the case? She doesn't date short men, big deal. Millions of women don't date short men. I was simply trying to help out a fellow Hobbit who is upset by the fact that short men are considered less desirable than their taller counterparts. I meant no harm or offence to Torn_Curtains. Though if you're expecting an apology from me then you'll be waiting for an eternity as I have nothing to apology for. End of discussion as far as I am concerned. I don't need an apology Maybe it would do you well to convey it differently. It may even be more "helpful"... ultimately it's okay if you don't mind portraying yourself foolishly --- this is only the internet after all --- but that's exactly what you've been doing. So expect reactions and... "discussions" (rather, pettiness).
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Is this part where I am supposed to care? It seems you do
allina Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 What's the difference between racist/homophobic & bigoted to you? Not questioning you're preferences just curious about your definitions. Well racist and homophobic are different prejudices and there are people who are not racist but hate gay people and vice versa. The bigoted was added as an et cetera, as I am just not interested in people who judge others by anything other than their actions/character.
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Really? You wouldn't providing crystal, undisputable evidence then won't you? Hmmm?
udolipixie Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Well racist and homophobic are different prejudices and there are people who are not racist but hate gay people and vice versa. The bigoted was added as an et cetera, as I am just not interested in people who judge others by anything other than their actions/character. Ah gotcha.
xra Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 Religious fanatics, overweight, animal haters (you can eat your cows all you want, but you better get along with my cat ), uneducated close-minded people, men shorter than me (is that shallow?)... Guess I'm sort of picky!
Author xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 Religious fanatics, overweight, animal haters (you can eat your cows all you want, but you better get along with my cat ), uneducated close-minded people, men shorter than me (is that shallow?)... Guess I'm sort of picky! Haha I agree with the animal thing but I have a dog right now since my parents visit me and my dad is allergic to cats. I almost came home tonight with another puppy from the shelter that was abadoned, he is a shar-pei pug mix SOOOO cute!! I get that not everyone loves all animals and that is ok but you have to love my dog!
Author xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted October 9, 2011 Author Posted October 9, 2011 I wish everyone could say their opinoins without putting down/insulting other people on this forum, I wish everyone could just agree to disagree and be nice to others. That is just my optimistic outlook in everything though, I still try and follow the golden rule as much as I can.
somedude81 Posted October 9, 2011 Posted October 9, 2011 I wish everyone could say their opinoins without putting down/insulting other people on this forum, I wish everyone could just agree to disagree and be nice to others. That is just my optimistic outlook in everything though, I still try and follow the golden rule as much as I can. Something tells me that you are the kind of girl that has posters of puppies and horses all over her room. And you also "Squee" a lot
Author xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted October 10, 2011 Author Posted October 10, 2011 Something tells me that you are the kind of girl that has posters of puppies and horses all over her room. And you also "Squee" a lot Haha no posters!! I have a calender with baby animals though lol!! The only posters I have are music or like a TV show like glee. And I only "squee" when I am too excited to say anything else, like when I scrubed in on my first surgery, when I got a first place in a show, got into my first choice school lol!
somedude81 Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 Haha no posters!! I have a calender with baby animals though lol!! The only posters I have are music or like a TV show like glee. And I only "squee" when I am too excited to say anything else, like when I scrubed in on my first surgery, when I got a first place in a show, got into my first choice school lol! Knew it! Yeah I got you pegged. You're the type who has a sweet, fun personality, seeks harmony and is probably a bit of a dork, which isn't a bad thing. Though I think you should let your hair grow long again. Short hair isn't a deal breaker per-say, but long hair is much more attractive.
Author xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted October 10, 2011 Author Posted October 10, 2011 Knew it! Yeah I got you pegged. You're the type who has a sweet, fun personality, seeks harmony and is probably a bit of a dork, which isn't a bad thing. Though I think you should let your hair grow long again. Short hair isn't a deal breaker per-say, but long hair is much more attractive. I am a little bit of a dork and I admit it, I was the book nerd in highschool lol! Proud of it though cause I never once was doing dumb things like drugs and getting pregnant at 16. I have thought about it but it takes SOO much less time to get ready in the morning because I have super thick and curly/wavy hair so it takes an hour off my old morning ritual. Plus it went to cancer wigs so I didn't mind and in the summer it weighs SOO much less!
Author xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted October 10, 2011 Author Posted October 10, 2011 Knew it! Yeah I got you pegged. You're the type who has a sweet, fun personality, seeks harmony and is probably a bit of a dork, which isn't a bad thing. Though I think you should let your hair grow long again. Short hair isn't a deal breaker per-say, but long hair is much more attractive. My hair looks something like this: http://www.salonspotter.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/JTM-056966-428x559.jpg I have a friend who is a hairdresser so I am her guinea pig lol! I have had every color hair, and luckly never had a really bad color, once it turned out a little too red but a couple washes and it was all good! Good news is my hair grows super fast, and it changes colors with every season lol!
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