Author stillhurt Posted September 9, 2011 Author Share Posted September 9, 2011 But, should i at least send a "no, everything is fine. thanks" text back? Isn't it rude that I was the one that sent it? Link to post Share on other sites
radiodarcy Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 you can if you want to but i wouldn't. silence speaks louder than words and it makes you look overly grateful for his offer to vent. not sure i get your point about it being rude for you to text him. you were feeling a little shaky and you reached out to him. that's all. you don't owe him any explanations or thank you's. Link to post Share on other sites
M2155 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 He's done far more rude things to you. Don't do it. It accomplishes nothing and the previous poster is right, silence says more. And he's not used to it. I remember when I started seeing a guy and my ex (of course) started calling me. I traveled out of the country with him so I didn't answer the phone. When I returned I had all these messages talking about "it's not like you not to answer!" Thanks for noticing buddy:mad: Leave it alone. He responded, but he probably waited becasue he didn't want to hear the venting anyway. You miss him, but your status won't change based on response/no-response to this text. Link to post Share on other sites
LelouchIsZero Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I personally would reply, but that's just me. I don't particularly think you have anything to lose by going either way. As long as you don't follow up with more texts (if you do end up replying), then things should be fine & dandy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author stillhurt Posted September 9, 2011 Author Share Posted September 9, 2011 Well, he usually responds pretty fast. He's a pilot, so sometimes he's not in the country. But, it's very possible that he waited so he didn't have to hear me vent. I can be long winded...lol.In the course of our relationship he almost never picked up my phone, unless we were in a bad fight. Link to post Share on other sites
Author stillhurt Posted September 9, 2011 Author Share Posted September 9, 2011 whoops...i meant to say, he always picked up my calls Link to post Share on other sites
Author stillhurt Posted September 10, 2011 Author Share Posted September 10, 2011 He texted again, so I replied with "everything's fine. No worries. Happy belated" He replied with "ok, I'm here if you need me". I showed I wasn't over him still and fed his ego. Didn't think I could feel worse. Great, I am just someone to pity. I learned my lesson. NO CONTACT! Link to post Share on other sites
Coupedriver Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 He said..."here if you need me..??!'? OF course hes there when YOU need him.Wouldn't be any other way for this azzhole to treat you like that...Hes PUMPED up right now....."Got here where I can keep her and NEED her if something doesnt work out..! He is having his cake and eating it too....I told me EX Gf the EXACT same thing...."If you need ANYTHING,I am here for you.." Why and the hell would she need anything if she bailed out on me for her new Bf.?!?!?!? Except to keep me around when this relationship DOESNT work for her..and it wont,but I will be damned is she would ever tell me....Stillhurt...YOU need to take control of this RIGHT now....You will be a basket case if you let this keep going on and I am DAMN sure NONE of us want to see that happen to you. The crap with this guy NEEDS to stop....I put a stop to mine about 2 hours ago..wrote her a nice little "Sorry..I guess I was wrong about being there for you " letter....I can see my health was becoming an issue with me and this HANGING on, hoping she would change her mind was getting me NO WHERE.He needs to be OUT of you life.....NOW....People like him dont belong in our world is which we live in. Link to post Share on other sites
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