Mme. Chaucer Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Might I suggest changing your name to combicbookgirl because you're really a woman. I think that waynebrady would be a better name.
You'reasian Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 (edited) The topic of this thread is extremely narrow about what matters about sex. Sex is a little more about the psychological as it is about physical parts. If you have bangin' chemistry with the person you're with, good sex will follow. Boob size/junk size is more of an afterthought. Sex is more about the partner, not the parts. Sex is not like porn. You're dealing with a real human being, emotions and desires. Foreplay matters alot. Your girlfriend, sex partner or whomever you're hooking up with probably won't reject you sucking on her nipples or teasing her with your junk. That will make her O alot easier and faster regardless of your dimensions. The most ideal sex partner is therefore someone whom you have unearthly chemistry and attraction to, who has sensitive parts and who has a relatively strong sex drive. If you're an average guy (slightly more or less) and your woman meets the above qualities, she will have few problems having an orgasm. Edited September 3, 2011 by You'reasian
OnyxSnowfall Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 The topic of this thread is extremely narrow about what matters about sex. Sex is a little more about the psychological as it is about physical parts. If you have bangin' chemistry with the person you're with, good sex will follow. Boob size/junk size is more of an afterthought. Sex is more about the partner, not the parts. Sex is not like porn. You're dealing with a real human being, emotions and desires. Foreplay matters alot. Your girlfriend, sex partner or whomever you're hooking up with probably won't reject you sucking on her nipples or teasing her with your junk. That will make her O alot easier and faster regardless of your dimensions. The most ideal sex partner is therefore someone whom you have unearthly chemistry and attraction to, who has sensitive parts and who has a relatively strong sex drive. If you're an average guy and your woman meets the above qualities, she will have few problems having an orgasm. I agree with some of your points, in that I personally believe that the epitome of good sex is an experience that transcends something far deeper than physique. But sometimes, sex is only about the physical attraction. Also, there are people who are terrified of intimacy and feel better about viewing others as inter-changeable "toys" or something or another... and do just want to have sex with someone's body, not their being. Finally... I don't think the strength of a sexual drive is as important as finding someone with a similar drive. Great sex could happen twice a month between people if they were both comfortable with that amount... and great sex can happen daily between people if they were both comfortable with that amount.
You'reasian Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 (edited) I agree with some of your points, in that I personally believe that the epitome of good sex is an experience that transcends something far deeper than physique. But sometimes, sex is only about the physical attraction. Also, there are people who are terrified of intimacy and feel better about viewing others as inter-changeable "toys" or something or another... and do just want to have sex with someone's body, not their being. Finally... I don't think the strength of a sexual drive is as important as finding someone with a similar drive. Great sex could happen twice a month between people if they were both comfortable with that amount... and great sex can happen daily between people if they were both comfortable with that amount. I think you misunderstood the concepts I was explaining. I'm not saying sex is metaphysical. Sex is sometimes only about the physical attraction. Unless we're talking about brothels, sex-dating websites or glory holes, chemistry is still involved. One night stands: Same thing. In order for a one night stand to take place, two people usually have some sort of communication where they're feeling each other out and flirting over a mutual attraction. Short-term chemistry with no commitment, but chemsitry none the less. Friends with Benefits: Well the first word says it all. Something had to have happened to create a friendship as a platform for hooking up (minus romance). Sex drive is a whole different dynamic (maybe a great start for a new thread?) Edited September 3, 2011 by You'reasian
OnyxSnowfall Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 I think you misunderstood the concepts I was explaining. I'm not saying sex is metaphysical. Sex is sometimes only about the physical attraction. Unless we're talking about brothels, sex-dating websites or glory holes, chemistry is still involved. One night stands: Same thing. In order for a one night stand to take place, two people usually have some sort of communication where they're feeling each other out and flirting over a mutual attraction. Short-term chemistry with no commitment, but chemsitry none the less. Friends with Benefits: Well the first word says it all... glory holes ( I had to look it up ) Well it seems I'm misunderstanding what you're implying then. I viewed the thread as a light curiosity from the OP and if picking either or, I think I liked how someone else put it : they're the same --- it's mainly contingent upon what gender it's coming from. Buuuuuuut in the grand scheme of things, breast size and penis size don't define good sex, no.
You'reasian Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 (edited) glory holes ( I had to look it up ) Well it seems I'm misunderstanding what you're implying then. I viewed the thread as a light curiosity from the OP and if picking either or, I think I liked how someone else put it : they're the same --- it's mainly contingent upon what gender it's coming from. Buuuuuuut in the grand scheme of things, breast size and penis size don't define good sex, no. Learn something new everyday, Onyx? I'm saying the buildup of chemistry, overall attraction is more important to determining your chances at sex than body parts alone. Knowing ones own body, another's preferences and one's own amount of experience determine how good your technique is. Parts alone don't define good sex. The exceptions: brothels, glory holes and sex-dating sites (to include Craigslist lol) PS - hope you didn't get into trouble for searching "glory hole"... Edited September 3, 2011 by You'reasian
OnyxSnowfall Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Learn something new everyday, Onyx? I'm saying the buildup of chemistry, overall attraction is more important to determining your chances at sex than body parts alone. Whether short-term or long-term. PS - hope you didn't get into trouble for searching "glory hole"... (I feel like I've been sheltered) Yes. Perhaps unless there is a heavy fetish, body parts alone do not typically generate enough chemistry and attraction. Even if they're "appreciated", there is probably much more psychologically going on. I think I grasp it better , thanks for your patience.
ThsAmericanLife Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 I have thought of that lol!! Thankfully my genes are pretty freakin good cause grandma, who i get my boobs from, had three kids and is now 88 and her boobs still are perky lol, I know this because she dosn't wear bras a lot lol. She also weight lifts though to keep the actual muscle working so they don't fall down to her knees. Yes, keeping the underlying muscles strong helps alot. Maybe I'm just jealous you have boobs ;p Maybe, but probably not. Doing pirouettes (ballet) would be much tougher with a chest. I love the lines of professional ballerinas. I look like them. Before I discovered ballet though, I had a runner's body. Not nearly as graceful. Still had the butt and legs though As I've gotten older, I've gotten much more focused on what my body can do and less on what it looks like... and amazingly... the minute I did that... I ended up with an amazing body that can do amazing things!! I guess we all got something we can be proud of
You'reasian Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 (I feel like I've been sheltered) I'm not one to talk dirty, but I use powerful words LOL Yes. Perhaps unless there is a heavy fetish, body parts alone do not typically generate enough chemistry and attraction. Even if they're "appreciated", there is probably much more psychologically going on. I think I grasp it better , thanks for your patience. I'm here to help...
You'reasian Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 As I've gotten older, I've gotten much more focused on what my body can do and less on what it looks like... and amazingly... the minute I did that... I ended up with an amazing body that can do amazing things!! I guess we all got something we can be proud of Post pics, pls. Thx
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Yes, keeping the underlying muscles strong helps alot. Maybe I'm just jealous you have boobs ;p Maybe, but probably not. Doing pirouettes (ballet) would be much tougher with a chest. I love the lines of professional ballerinas. I look like them. Before I discovered ballet though, I had a runner's body. Not nearly as graceful. Still had the butt and legs though As I've gotten older, I've gotten much more focused on what my body can do and less on what it looks like... and amazingly... the minute I did that... I ended up with an amazing body that can do amazing things!! I guess we all got something we can be proud of Haha it is sooo much harder with a chest, I was a dancer for years, but as soon as I hit fifth grade and started getting boobs it got harder. It takes so much more momentum to do a triple pirouette then my friend who wears a AA bra. Not that I ever let that stop me lol, it is a lot harder to be a jumper too sometimes because I have to elevate my chest even more than other girls so points don't get deducted. Oh well though!! The only thing I would never do is jump on a trampoline in like a bathing suit, I would get a freakin black eye!!!
somedude81 Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 The only thing I would never do is jump on a trampoline in like a bathing suit, I would get a freakin black eye!!! Would you do it for a Klondike Bar?
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Would you do it for a Klondike Bar? Don't judge trampolines are fun!! Just don't jump on one when they are wet, that is bad!!
You'reasian Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Oh well though!! The only thing I would never do is jump on a trampoline in like a bathing suit, I would get a freakin black eye!!! Uh huh, sure.
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Why does it have to be limited to breast/penis size? What about the men who could care less about boob size and more about ass quality?? As a matter of fact. I will make that a new option. Option C = Ass size. I vote option C. Also, to compare something like this is pretty hard because the divide is too deep. Again, option C. Nate we also know you are a foot man too!!
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Uh huh' date=' sure.[/quote'] Hehe . The only boobs that wouldn't move are fake ones, although some now apparently are more realistic. I still wouldn't let anyone go anywhere near me with a knife let alone my chest.
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Of course I am girl. You can't build a great ass without feet:cool: Haha I'm still holding you to that foot massage!! You may have to carry me though cause my feet are soooo freakin sore!!! This week someone literally ran over my foot with their bike it hurt sooo bad!!
ThsAmericanLife Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Post pics' date=' pls. Thx[/quote'] Sure... knees down and on pointe... good enough??
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Sure... knees down and on pointe... good enough?? You go!! Haha I give you credit!! Some women think heels are bad being on pointe is worse!!
ThsAmericanLife Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 You go!! Haha I give you credit!! Some women think heels are bad being on pointe is worse!! it is sooo much fun though... feels like flying! Plus I'm really tall when I'm on point... Close to 6' Gotta love it.
aj22one Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 When it comes to breast size I think this quote from Morris L. Tibbs accurately describes how I feel: "I like 'em small, but I like 'em big. What can I say I'm a fan of the whole genre."
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 it is sooo much fun though... feels like flying! Plus I'm really tall when I'm on point... Close to 6' Gotta love it. I won't be that tall ever!! I am like 5'7" on pointe I am a little midget at 5'3"-5'4". Oh well, being short is all bad!!
You'reasian Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Hehe . The only boobs that wouldn't move are fake ones, although some now apparently are more realistic. I still wouldn't let anyone go anywhere near me with a knife let alone my chest. Where's this coming from? lol
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Where's this coming from? lol I'm just random don't worry about it!!
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Isn't 5'4 the average size of a woman? But I think women are getting taller. So many young girls seem tall and gangly
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