idkwtf Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 Exactly one week no contact today! Yay me! I am struggling though. We have been broken up for a year. He recently contacted me wanting to be friends and I said NO! WHY does he run in and out of my life like that? He has had several flings since we broke up. NONE of them last longer than 3 weeks. I know that NC is supposed to be about me but I still wonder. Why does he run in and out of my life if he does not love me? Why does he not realize what he has lost after I finally told him I am done? I just feel sooooooo sad today. Open to ANY comments or advice. I just want this to be over. Link to post Share on other sites
antinko Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 The sensible action to take would be to cut him out completely and bar him from running into your life at his will. It seems that you afford him a certain amount of power over you still. Well done on NC, though. Link to post Share on other sites
flitzanu Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 you're saying you'be been broken up for a year and talked to him the whole time or what? Link to post Share on other sites
Author idkwtf Posted September 1, 2011 Author Share Posted September 1, 2011 Have not talked to him since Jan. I thought no contact would give me back a sense of control. I wish I never would have talked to him. Just set me back to square one. Link to post Share on other sites
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