Ayla Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 So I've been spending a lot more time with the guy I like. We have been catching up more often and he has been initiating most of the contact. 2 weeks ago he spent the night - we fooled around a bit and he stayed the night. Since then it has been more and more clear that he likes me-his actions, his looks and what his friends say. Yesterday afternoon we met for coffee and went for a drive. When he dropped me home, I told him to come over later to watch a DVD if he was bored. At 7pm he text me asking what time I was putting on the DVD. I told him, and he said that he had double booked himself and just had to drop into a friends place, then he would be over. At 8.30 he told me he would be over soon. By 10pm he was not over, so I text him and said "it's getting late. It's probably best if you head home." As he had to start work at 6am in the morning. He didn't reply...this morning I text him, and said "what happened to you last night? Are you ok?" it has been an hour, and I haven't heard from him. I know he might be busy at work, but I'm starting to get worried. What should I do? We are in the same social circle and he is one of my brothers best friends. But i don't want to make a mountain out of a mole hill, or scare him off.
sm1tten Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 For now, do nothing. You've texted him twice with no response, you've done your part, now it's on him to apologise and explain. Probably got caught up drinking or something.
cereza Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 Do nothing. Just wait for him to text or call and explain himself. If it was something bad then you would know. Bad news travel fast. Just calm down and wait, do something to pass the time.
Author Ayla Posted August 21, 2011 Author Posted August 21, 2011 I hope your right. Things have been going well, and I have not been pushing him or being needy etc. My gut tells me that it's exactly what happened, but my brain is working on overdrive. I like this guy so much.
Author Ayla Posted August 21, 2011 Author Posted August 21, 2011 I'm also worried that he might have freaked himself out...
confusedgirl56 Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 I agree with previous comments. It's best to do nothing at this point. He might be busy after a late night and rushing to work this morning. Guys will be busy, just like us. But if he's into you, he will always come back and contact you. Just wait for now. If he doesn't text you in 2-3 days, you can move on.
Author Ayla Posted August 21, 2011 Author Posted August 21, 2011 Good news-I did as suggested, and did not contact him again today (although I was tempted!!). He text me an hour ago and explained that his friend was a bit of a mess last night and couldn't get away. Yes-he should have let me know, however, at least he let me know today! Feeling a lot better. I tell you, the risk of falling for a guy and the emotional roller coaster that you go on during the process is scary!!!
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