ptp Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 Don't worry, I caught the reference. Hey at least one person picked up on it .
Lauriebell82 Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 I'm married now but for when I was dating... 1) substance abuse 2) no college degree 3) chronic bad breath 4) doesn't like to exercise 5) has a small penis 6) is flaky and cancels/postpones dates 7) smoker 8) is divorced and/or has children 9) has cheated in a past relationship (they are more likely to do it again) 10) real skinny. I like men who are ripped and muscular, like a quarterback type.
snug.bunny Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 I'm confused. Is penis nose a real thing? If not, why make a movie about it? No, penis nose is not real. It was just a spoof ----> PN Back on topic.... (sorry)
Feelsgoodman Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 Must not be a foreigner living here temporarily.
Rinas Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 Must not be a foreigner living here temporarily. Just awful.
youngskywalker Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 1- divorced with kids 2- has compulsions 3- drugs 4- potty mouth 5- controlling/mean spirited 6- shaved head lol
PelicanPete Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 -excessive swearing -smoker/drug user -pessimistic -manipulative/controlling -very insecure -unreliable -bad hygiene/unhealthy -cowardice
Casablanca Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 One more I want to add -Vegetarian/pescatarian ...even if she doesnt look down on people for eating meat...meat is a decent part of my diet...I'd just feel awkward...plus I love to cook for my lady...can't really grill up chicken, or steak or burgers if they dont eat them.
rafallus Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 -Constant texting on the phone while talking, -Constant attempts to make me jealous, -Strong political/religious views and trying to impose them on others, -Withholding intimacy on preplanned basis (means going by the book, not "I don't feel ready" kind of thing)
EricaH329 Posted July 31, 2011 Posted July 31, 2011 InsensitiveCondescendingLacks basic knowledgeLacks a sense of humorPessimisticAll about sexUnreliableNever thinks about the future (no goals/plans) Some of those I can take in small doses, but for the most part they are deal breakers.
dispatch3d Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 6) does not know much about the world, such as general knowledge about other countries, facts and history. 3) too logical lol wait a second, how can you put "smart" and "too logical" in the same list? hahaha anyways!
KR10N Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Men who... 1) are only seeking a physical relationship 2) have a superiority complex 3) drug & alcohol abuse 4) extreme disregard for people & animals 5) has a history of being unfaithful 6) has a criminal record 7) talks about past relationships 8) complete lack of self respect 9) too close to his mother (I have nothing against a man & his relationship w/ his mom but sometimes it's just too much) 10) insistent on going to clubs, bars or any social gathering where people dance
Author temporaryvisa Posted August 1, 2011 Author Posted August 1, 2011 Rinas you have a terrible sense of humor-boring : P I would actually love to be with a vegetarian!
Nexus One Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 (edited) I've posted lists of these before. This time I want to do something different. I'm going to post what I, as a guy, think that women see as deal breakers, based on what I've heard women say about guys in general. At this point I've hardly read this thread so here it goes: - He shouldn't have yellow and/or crooked teeth or bad breath. - He shouldn't have bad hygiene. He should shower daily and shouldn't have greasy hair. - He shouldn't be a mama's boy. - He shouldn't be into his looks too much, otherwise he's probably gay. (according to many women) - He shouldn't ignore me when I talk to him, he should listen. - He shouldn't be insecure. He should be confident. - He shouldn't be clingy. - He shouldn't stick his tongue too far down my throat when french kissing. (Fair enough, the girl should be able to breath when kissing) - He shouldn't have dry lips when kissing. - He shouldn't pretend to be someone he's not, he should be himself. - He shouldn't mumble, but articulate. - He shouldn't neglect to call when he has promised to do so. - He shouldn't give off an angry vibe or be rude or grumpy. - He shouldn't go silent on me once he has expressed interest in me. (probably comes down the confidence thing women keep talking about) - He shouldn't talk about his in-game experiences. - He shouldn't wear too much cologne. - He shouldn't be too serious. He should have (some) humor. - He shouldn't be or act immature. - He should have it together financially, preferably have his own house and car. So tell me, does this sound about right? Edited August 1, 2011 by Nexus One
EricaH329 Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Based on my deal breakers, you are almost completely wrong. I went ahead and took the liberty of pointing it out Also, as I was doing this, I realized a lot of things that guys wouldn't like either. It really does go both ways I've posted lists of these before. This time I want to do something different. I'm going to post what I, as a guy, think that women see as deal breakers, based on what I've heard women say about guys in general. At this point I've hardly read this thread so here it goes: - He shouldn't have yellow and/or crooked teeth or bad breath. There is a limit. I'm sure you wouldn't date someone who had to wear dentures. - He shouldn't have bad hygiene. He should shower daily and shouldn't have greasy hair. Girls who have greasy hair are sexy, right? - He shouldn't be a mama's boy. Again, there is a limit to this. He shouldn't still be feeding off his mothers breast. - He shouldn't be into his looks too much, otherwise he's probably gay. (according to many women) Personally, I enjoy a man who has the ability to take care of himself. - He shouldn't ignore me when I talk to him, he should listen. Who likes to be ignored? - He shouldn't be insecure. He should be confident. Who likes their SO to be insecure? - He shouldn't be clingy. Ah, clingy people are awesome - He shouldn't stick his tongue too far down my throat when french kissing. (Fair enough, the girl should be able to breath when kissing) Is this really a deal breaker? - He shouldn't have dry lips when kissing. Chapstick! - He shouldn't pretend to be someone he's not, he should be himself. I love to be involved with someone who pretends to be someone else - He shouldn't mumble, but articulate. Ok this one is dumb. - He shouldn't neglect to call when he has promised to do so. Unreliable. - He shouldn't give off an angry vibe or be rude or grumpy. Pessimistic. - He shouldn't go silent on me once he has expressed interest in me. (probably comes down the confidence thing women keep talking about) Bored? I don't like that either. - He shouldn't talk about his in-game experiences. Cocky? - He shouldn't wear too much cologne. Not a big deal. - He shouldn't be too serious. He should have (some) humor. Too serious? Can't take a joke or play around? - He shouldn't be or act immature. Don't want to date a 5 year old. - He should have it together financially, preferably have his own house and car. I don't think a guy i'm dating has to be financially well off. But I do think he needs a goal towards making a career for himself in the future. So tell me, does this sound about right? I just did :laugh:
Nexus One Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 For the sake of clarity, my post wasn't meant as a critique of women's turn-offs or demands so to say, just some things I heard girls/women say about guys in general. I thought I'd put them in a list in this thread. C'est ca.
EricaH329 Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 For the sake of clarity, my post wasn't meant as a critique of women's turn-offs or demands so to say, just some things I heard girls/women say about guys in general. I thought I'd put them in a list in this thread. C'est ca. I'm sorry, I thought your comment at the end, 'So tell me, does this sound about right?' was meant as a critique on your post. I apologize!
ChessPieceFace Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 1) talks about wanting sex on the first date. 2) does drugs regularly 3) too logical 4) does not laugh easily 5) takes himself way too seriously 6) does not know much about the world, such as general knowledge about other countries, facts and history. 7) does not enjoy travelling 8) is embarrassed by PDA 9) plays too many video games 10) prude I came on to post a thread "what's the point of dating", then I saw your thread and you showed me there is no point. Thanks.
Flipper Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 1. Bitchiness 2. Trying to be a "hot-shot" 3. Has one night stands all the time 4. Checks out every guy she sees
flyaway Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 here is mine. 1. stupidity and lack of general knowledge about the world 2. immature 3. likes to party or dance at night clubs 4. poor taste in music (no pop music or overall bad music) 5. liberal/democrat (sorry) 6. religious in any sense, esp christian. i'm never dating those again. 7. addicted to cigs (i smoke hookah sometimes so i dont say no to all smoking) 8. amphetamine or narcotic usage (i tolerate some alcohol and pot usage, and maybe psychadelics but depends on which ones - no abusers!) 9. no drive in life 10. wants biological kids (i'm infertile and dont want any anyway) 11. controlling and insecure 12. conventional and boring 13. overly feminine or masculine 14. poor hygiene 15. bad chemistry/no attraction 16. treats me poorly - i deserve respect and kindness 17. romantic - i am not the romance type. don't do those cheesy things for me. they make me feel uncomfortable. just grill me up a steak and lets curl up and watch tv. i am lucky to have found a great man who finally meets all of these.
Star Gazer Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 In no particular order: 1. Doesn't take care of himself (poor hygiene, out of shape, crappy diet) 2. Has current addictions/obsessions (drugs, alcohol, smoking, sex, gambling, etc.) 3. Lacks common sense intelligence 4. Boring or non-existent conversationalist 5. Immature, petty 6. No desire to explore the world or learn/try new things 7. Bad in bed or tiny penis 8. Issues with anger, bitterness, or desire/need to control 9. Materialistic or name/status-dropper 10. Disrespectful to me, or anyone else
angili Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 you got me right too! I also not a relaxed person and i need sex instantly on the first date! I used pheromones and it helps me to attract the girls.
ScreamingTrees Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 Wow. I had a different list originally, but I figure I gotta keep up with the lot of you high-standard classy folk. Hmm.. well, here goes.. 1. Big breasts (I WANT BEE STINGS... probably not in the majority here.) 2. Small ass (I admire large posteriors. I cannot lie about this. ) 3. Terrible in bed (Big, floppy, cavernous vaginas need not apply. How DARE you tell me I have a small penis when you can fit a baseball worth approximately 20,000$ in your snatch? BLASPHEMY!..) 4. Stupidity (YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE! Running rampant in this thread..) 5. Disrespect (I could treat her any way I wanted, of course!) 6. Impurities (SIEG HEIL! POWER TO THE MASTER RACE! WHIYTE POWAR) 7. No Pheromones (If I don't feel that magical spark and jizz my pants when I lay eyes on you, so help me..) 8. Taste in music (I AM ELITE) 9. Drugs (IF she's not sharing them with me..) 10. Can't be too girly (Bitches need not apply) 10A. Can't be too manly (Hairy Olgas need not apply) 10. Must be adventurous (If we're not hanging off of a cliff somewhere in bangkok after a night of wild drug use, you're not up to my speed, babe. You also need to be cool with me putting it in your butt. At any time. Without warning. Seriously.) 11. Too uptight 11A. Too immature (REAL women only..) 11B. Religious (You need to evolve like the rest of us and live in THIS reality and forget about moral-teaching fables.) 11C. Political (Who could ever trust a politician?) 11D. Breathing (If you're dead, you're already more than half way where I need you to be!) Oh.. wait.. Was it 10? Did I put 11? Woops. Disclaimer: Dealbreakers subject to change depending on owner's mood. If someone actually got the baseball reference, congratulations, you've gained this poster's admiration and acceptance as a human being. If you're actually eligible for attraction, shoot yourself. Why? For the lulz.
lalalandman Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 I like how on the original list, Number 1 and 10 just don't really jive together...
ScreamingTrees Posted August 1, 2011 Posted August 1, 2011 I like how on the original list, Number 1 and 10 just don't really jive together... 3 and 6 seem to contradict each other as well. Weird. I think there are a lot of weird things throughout this particular thread. Huh..
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