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Chemistry. How do you know it is there?


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What is chemistry between a male and a female like and what would be the best way to explain it?

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To me, it's a farce.

 

Most see it as "funny feeling in their stomach" or in their nerves when they're with someone. They feel like they could date and sleep with this person.

 

I think it's bogus because of how many who can't separate lust from what is an actual connection, and even more by how many people seem to think it's supposed to happen immediately. Many of my exes were women I've known over a long period of time. When I met them they were lukewarm on me, but as we got to know one another over the course of months or a year, they suddenly went from lukewarm to hot.

 

I look at playas and pick-up artists. These are guys who are SKILLED in creating this sense of "chemistry" with any person they encounter. Do you get me here? They go out and manipulate women into liking them...even if they're totally lying to them.

 

This is why one can't trust "chemistry". It's why most people are not going to find their ideal person instantly.

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