ethb Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 (edited) This guy who supposedly likes me, doesn't really keep in contact with me. I would text him every once in a while and he does respond. I text instead of call because im scared. I am really shy and i'm not exactly a phone person. Plus the fact that it would take me a lot of courage to call him and he probably wont pick up anyway. He rarely picks up or responds to people's phone calls and texts. He's told me he likes me and ive told him i like him. We dont see each other much because of distance. Hes in the military and hes injured right now. I completely understand what he's going through that's why i havent pressured him about us or even asked him about whats going on with us. The most recent talk we had was when we admitted to each other that we like each other. Ive been giving him all the time he needs because he's going through a lot. We are about an hour and a half away and we tend to just see each other when our common friends hang out since he doesnt have his car yet. I have a car now and can go see him, but hes so hard to get a hold of. And i feel that im not really at a place yet to be like "hey, can i come see you?" it might freak him out. Anyway, we act very couply and affectionate when we're together- kiss, hug, hold hands. We've also been intimate. But when we're apart, i dont really hear from him. Everyones telling me to move on because he hasnt really given me any effort but i dont know why im so stubborn and i still keep waiting for him. His own best friend had even told me that i need to move on because if he really wanted to be with me, he would be. His best friend knows he likes me but doesnt agree that hes not doing anything. I dont know what to do. Should i still talk to him about it? Let it go without saying anything? Move on? Wait? Im soo lost right now. Edited July 25, 2011 by ethb
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