Lynskydoodles Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 (edited) Hi all, I need your sound advice about this guy I am seeing. I met this guy while traveling by train and we had a nice conversation (he even shared his dinner (a huge sandwich) with me) and ended up exchanging phone numbers. After a few minutes, he texted saying he had a great time and i should keep in touch. The following days were followed up by getting-to-know-you emails and then after a week, he finally called and asked me out for lunch when I visit the city (I live far from the city, about 2.5hrs train ride). I said yes and after almost 2 months (I don't often visit the city), we finally had our lunch together which seemed to me an interesting one. He was happy, funny and lively and the conversation just went on. He brought a bag of chocolate candy bars which we shared and during lunch I notice that he tends to lean inward when he speaks and he looks through my eyes. I am not sure if this is a subtle hint of attraction anyway, while we were walking out of the restaurant, before we finally part ways, he said " the next time you visit the city, call me, let's share a meal together." and I said yes. He gave a smile and we parted ways. This guy is poor in follow through, doesn't call, text or anything. He doesn't even have a well udpated facebook page. It appears he is kindda untouchable in the online presence thing. I do text him to greet him probably 1x a week or even less cause i hate to sound desperate....Plus, I'm shy, I hate doing the call. Will texting suffice? What do you think guys, does he like me and he's just taking it slow. Or am I just assuming things? Edited July 25, 2011 by Lynskydoodles add'l information
thatone Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 you have no way of knowing unless you make some effort, because he obviously isn't going to do so when you showed him no interest. get over the 'sounding desperate' bit. it's a bullsh*t game that attention whores play to convince themselves that they're still desirable despite the fact that most of them are broken and miserable.
Author Lynskydoodles Posted July 26, 2011 Author Posted July 26, 2011 You're right Thatone I contacted the bloke and somehow showed my care and concern and now he's turned the lunch into a date night! Woo hoo!
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