heavyiron Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I met this really cute black girl while in the gym. She's clearly African-American, but facial features kinda resemble that of white or Asian descent. Anyway, I been seeing her at the gym for at least 3 month. I struck up a conversation with her 2 month ago, and ended up asking for her number, half expecting to be rejected. To my surprise, she was pretty eager and gave it to me. I called her and we have a few dates so far, been hanging out a lot too.. and I really like this girl. I've only dated Asian girls in the past, all my friends are asian, and obviously my parents are asian too. I dunno the racial make up of this forum, but as some may know asian people can be really racist. My parents always tell me to bring home an asian girl, and quite frankly my friends would probably think its awkward and weird that I'm seeing someone that's black. This is just the beginning of our relationship... do y'all think something like this will last.. I probably won't get many approval from my social circle.. although her friends seem to be really encouraging of her and likes me quite a bit. I really enjoy her company, and honestly she's a lot better in bed than the other girls I've dated before
Tsukahime Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 If you really like her then what's wrong with being different races? If you believe it'll last then it will as long as you want to be with her. Your over thinking it. Me personally, I'm an Asian/Black girl so it does happen more often than you think. I think in any interracial relationship sometimes there's a little bit of uncomfortableness but if your worrying about it this much then that must mean you really like her. So it shouldn't matter. Do what makes you feel happy in the end.
Damien Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 I dunno the racial make up of this forum, but as some may know asian people can be really racist. My parents always tell me to bring home an asian girl, and quite frankly my friends would probably think its awkward and weird that I'm seeing someone that's black. Ha, I know the feeling! I'm Asian also and yep, our parents can be very, very.. judgemental. Mine are actually quite racist, they didn't say anything to my face about my ex but obviously talked behind my back. As for my friends, none of them ever thought it was awkward. I mean, at first they probably thought 'huh' but once they saw me happy with the other girl they didn't care at all. Friends that think it's awkward and don't support you aren't really 'friends' at all. Just go for it and don't worry about what others think, it's your life and it's also 2011, interacial relationships happen more than they used to!
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