cali858687 Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 (edited) hey all... i'm from a small town in cali and finding a nice girl is not that easy.... went on two dates with a girl i meet on a 4th of july vacation. first one was really fun, played mini golf, lots of laughing and talking. second was good as well. BUT during the second one she said that she is just looking to date now and nothing serious right away. she said she wants to get to know me more and then see where it can go. the date eneded really well still, we both laughed and talked alot. at the end of the date i said let me know when you want to go out again. she said she will. overall both really good dates but her saying that kinda confused me. 1. does she like me/worth further efforts? 2. if so what is my next move? i think i will wait and see if she calls or text me... if she does then we have a chance. if not then no reason to go any further. Edited July 24, 2011 by cali858687
joeLove Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Why do you want her to decide when to go with you? Make some nice plans, call her and ask her if she wants to go or not. If she doesn't want to go, find someone else who might want to go. It is quite simple ... When a woman says, she is going to think about it ... it could be good, it could be bad ... but, it shouldn't stop you from keep looking as well ... Cause I'm sure, she wants to keep her options opened as well. Don't sweat it ... don't spend sleepless nights over it ..
Author cali858687 Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 "Why do you want her to decide when to go with you?".... i'm just thinking letting her make the next move is best at this point. it will tell me if she is REALLY interested or not. plus i dont want to look overly needy ... not a good move?
joeLove Posted July 24, 2011 Posted July 24, 2011 Asking to spend time with her ... or getting to know her better doesn't sound needy to me ... (but that's me)... You right, she might think so ... But, I think the key is ... keep looking, don't sweat her too much. You might even find someone better .. who knows? How old is she? is she experienced? "Why do you want her to decide when to go with you?".... i'm just thinking letting her make the next move is best at this point. it will tell me if she is REALLY interested or not. plus i dont want to look overly needy ... not a good move?
Author cali858687 Posted July 24, 2011 Author Posted July 24, 2011 she is 25 and somewhat recently got out of a long relationship. i'm not overly concerned about it but I do like her and i told her that, so she knows how i feel... i just can't see her not texting/calling me if she truly does think we have a chance.
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