GaelicSoul Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 Hi All, Currently im on strict NC since Feb, since my ex gf of 2.5 years broke up with me in january. I got the old "i love you but im not...anymore". Im 28 she is 25. old posts http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t262599 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t264351 Since then there has been no contact from her, and none from me. Im moving on , and feel i have made a lot of positive changes in my life. I left a job i was so unhappy with, and im soon to go travelling the world for a year by myself. Im really looking forward to the future. I have regained my confidence, made new friends and am happier. I still miss my ex, and have really honestly reflected on the realtionship for what it was. Recently the last few weeks i have been receiving random Private Number calls a few times a week, and a few voicemails that were blank. Like anybody else, i thought it could possibly have be bank, or telmarketers, as i never answer them. When i answered one, it was blank, and hung up after a few seconds. And last friday morning, i received a voicemail from one, and it was a girls voice, saying "hello?" in a busy background. The tone of her voice sounded very like her. Now im not getting my hopes up, as im moving abroad soon and thinking about the future, but part of me is wondering if it really is her, and what does she want after all this time. The last time contact came from her side, was her sisters partner ringing me in May asking did i want to go to a concert with him. Hes a music fan like me, and we got on very well. But that was the first time he spoke to me since Jan. I didnt go as i was busy, Politely thanked him for the offer and didnt mention her or ask how she was. Have anybody else experienced similar situations to this? Thanks
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