vnally Posted July 19, 2011 Posted July 19, 2011 I'm aware that I only ever come to this website when I have a dating problem but thanks for the help you've all given me in the past! I think it just helps to vent at strangers sometimes, haha. Some background information: I met this guy online recently and have gone out on three very successful dates with him, all of which have ended with him spending the night. Nothing too sexual has happened yet, it's just easier for him to stay over than to spend two hours trying to get back home to a different borough, but I'm a little worried that the sleeping over has made me view him in a more intimate light. Our last date was exactly a week ago and now he's going abroad on vacation for two weeks, which he'd told me about before we started dating. Perhaps it's because of the ways in which I've been broken up with in the past or because, as I said, the sleeping over has made me warm to him more quickly than usual, but I'm afraid that when he comes back he'll have forgotten all about me or that he just won't want to continue dating me. He hasn't made much of an effort to initiate conversation with me in the last week, which is most likely because he's gearing up for this trip, but I can't shake the feeling that maybe he's not as interested in me as I am in him anymore. If we'd gone on more than three dates I'd definitely be in a better position to talk to him about it, but I don't want to scare him off by seeming too eager. Does anyone have any similar experiences they can share or tips for helping me cope with my own neuroses here?
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