Eeyore79 Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 Stop having sex with him immediately. Tell him you made a mistake, and you don't feel comfortable having sex unless you're exclusive. If he runs for the door, he was just using you for sex. In future, don't have sex with a guy until you're in an exclusive relationship, you trust that his intentions are honorable and he's taking the relationship seriously.
oaks Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 guess all the winners are taken cuz ive had about 80 LOSers 80 losers? That's a lot of fail! Where do you find these guys? How do you select who ends up in your bed or in a relationship with you? I suspect there's something you can do smarter here to filter out the next 80 losers.
Author alexa137 Posted July 20, 2011 Author Posted July 20, 2011 now 80 in my bed, maybe half that amount, but prob about 80 ive started to date,fwb,talked to, exc... but thats the thing im almost 41 and about to be done wt men completely and just deal that i will be single til i die, its not worth the heartache and pain and all the problems of wondering and asking and dealing with the bull**** i said a few years ago after my last breakup i was done but i tried 1 more i dont want to keep meeting, dating, having sex and then breaking up and losing another person i care about and have feelings for. i wanted the next guy to be my bf/husband!
oaks Posted July 20, 2011 Posted July 20, 2011 i wanted the next guy to be my bf/husband! Ok. You could do worse than not get in to bed with the next guy until he's your boyfriend. If that makes him run away then he definitely isn't husband material (for you).
Author alexa137 Posted July 21, 2011 Author Posted July 21, 2011 not true at all! i did that for 2 yrs and i only saw his about 3 to 4 times a week for an hr and you know what that visit was all about!SMDH!
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