gorilla07 Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 So i have nothing against females..but do they purposely mess with us guys heads? Im currently in a situation where i met a girl on pof about 3 months ago, we hit it off strong txt'ng each other constantly had everything in common, planned to meet up, then got the whole my ex is back from iraq and we're thinking about getting back and i dont want to give you the wrong signal txt. Well earlier this evening i had a facebook status sayin how i was makin homeade dinner, and outta nowhere she commented saying how i should come and make her some sometime. and she started txt'ng me again. I would definately thinking about getting to know her some more but I dont know how to ask her if she's still thinking about getting back with her ex. any help would be awsome! Thanks
Enchanted Girl Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 She's not trying to purposefully confuse you. She has either friendzoned you or she's confused herself. I suggest agreeing to go to dinner with her, but making it seem like you have other options when it comes to women so that she either tries to cling to you really hard or get rid of you completely.
Author gorilla07 Posted July 12, 2011 Author Posted July 12, 2011 So in other words im supposed to play hard to get. That wont be a problem for me but how do i ask her if shes still thinking about her ex or do I not ask?
Enchanted Girl Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 So in other words im supposed to play hard to get. That wont be a problem for me but how do i ask her if shes still thinking about her ex or do I not ask? Don't ask unless she starts flirting with you a whole lot or something. Wait until she wants you badly and is sending all the right signals.
Eddie Edirol Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 So in other words im supposed to play hard to get. That wont be a problem for me but how do i ask her if shes still thinking about her ex or do I not ask? Even if he isnt over her ex, she wont tell you. She will probably twist the story to make herself look good. If she dumped you to try with her ex again, chances are she was the one who needed that relationship more, and you will get dumped again. I say ditch her, it will only lead to disappointment later. if she wasnt sure about you the first time, she most likely wont be that sure this time. Maybe she just wants to get laid, or wants to use you to make her ex jealous. None of this may be true, but be on the lookout for everything she says. You dont want to be the rebound relationship, or be completely ignorant of what her agenda could be.
Enchanted Girl Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 Even if he isnt over her ex, she wont tell you. She will probably twist the story to make herself look good. If she dumped you to try with her ex again, chances are she was the one who needed that relationship more, and you will get dumped again. I say ditch her, it will only lead to disappointment later. if she wasnt sure about you the first time, she most likely wont be that sure this time. Maybe she just wants to get laid, or wants to use you to make her ex jealous. None of this may be true, but be on the lookout for everything she says. You dont want to be the rebound relationship, or be completely ignorant of what her agenda could be. This isn't bad advice. She chose another guy over you once, its likely to happen again.
Author gorilla07 Posted July 12, 2011 Author Posted July 12, 2011 we never technically dated..she was just looking to meet new people and she said possibly it could lead to one but who knows..we were both busy and never got a chance to meet up..i was just thinking about askin her to hang out and see where she's at..
Author gorilla07 Posted July 12, 2011 Author Posted July 12, 2011 well, after i got off of here her and i were talking, makin each other laugh etc. then she sends me the txts saying how much we think alike and asked me if i wanted to hang out with her sometime. I said for sure and got the response on how i sound like a cool guy
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