pangel Posted July 8, 2011 Posted July 8, 2011 About a year ago my wife and i amicably called it quits after nine years together. She was my first and only relationship. Four months ago I started dating a great girl. She's extremely smart and beautiful and all the great things you want in someone. I am very grateful she came into my life. The problem is I know it isn't going to last. That spark just isn't there. I don't want to lead her on when I'm just not feeling it but I don't know that she will understand that it isn't something that can be fixed. If its not there its not there. I don't really trust myself with these issues because the fact is I WAS trained while married. I'm very used to being in a relationship and part of me desperately wants the comfort and stability that comes with that, and so will once again settle for something I know isn't working, which is unfair to all parties involved. So should I end things now or give it a bit more time? If I do end it, do I try and remain friends with her?
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