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The Plus Size Girl with two kids who rejected me for not having a car is BACK

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PhillyDude Established Member

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We met on a phoe dating service 2 months ago and she found me on a internet dating service and sent me a message. Why? Because she is probably has been getting rejecting from guys since we last spoke so now I'm supposed to be interested in chatting?

 

Why do women think men are stupid?

SmileFace Established Member

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Dude, you should totally try and get with her again.

 

Then be shoot down...That will be SWEEEET! notsrs

Sanman Established Member

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This is one of the few situations where I think hit it and quit it is entirely acceptable.

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kick her fat behind to the curb

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PhillyDude Established Member

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The last line of her profile says

 

"I just to add the man I am seeking must have a job, vechile, and his own place."

 

 

LOL

udolipixie Established Member

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The last line of her profile says

 

"I just to add the man I am seeking must have a job, vechile, and his own place."

 

 

LOL

 

Depending on the age I think it's a reasonable expectation that adult women & men should have a job, their own place (roommates, house, apartment), and a car.

 

 

The ONLY Exceptions to job being disability, college, or can't find one but still actively looking.

 

Exceptions to own vehicle being funds or preferring another mode of transportation.

 

Exceptions to own place being funds, being in college & staying home, being young & living home, moving back home to take careof sick parent.

udolipixie Established Member

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So the fact that she's a plus size is what makes her disgusting?

No, the fact that she rejected you for not having a car is what's disgusting.

 

I'm sorry, a person's weight is not what makes a person beautiful.

 

Not really depending on the age that's a reasonable expectation.

udolipixie Established Member

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Umm, let's see:

 

No job = bad economy

No job = bad economy = living at home with parents

no job = bad economy = living at home with parents = can't afford a car

 

Does no job = bad economy = living at home = can't afford a car = unattractive?

 

Only to women. A man would be happy to date a woman in that position.

 

 

Let me refer you to this:

Exceptions to own vehicle being funds or preferring another mode of transportation.

 

 

A guy would be happy because most guys think:

 

First. looks in the initial stage

 

Second. personality when they're interested because they have to spend time together.

 

Third possibly. is this an independent adult who can function on her own when they're serious or committed. Possibly because if looks & personality is enough he'll put himself in the position to care for her.

^ this is what princesses feed on

^ this is why women think they can skate on looks & snare with personality

udolipixie Established Member

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I don't date because I live at home and don't have a job.

 

That being said, I feel like there's truth to what you said. Past a certain age, it's a stigmata for males. Same with virginity.

 

 

Why wouldn't expecting an adult to have a job, vehicle, and her/his own pace withstanding a few exceptions not be true?

 

 

Past a certain age there's a stigma for both men/women.

Men get the loser stigma.

Women get the she thinks she's princess stigma.

 

 

Virginity you can thank male gender roles for that.

You can also thank society which prizes & values female virginity more than mens.

udolipixie Established Member

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No, I think women get the crazy cat lady stigmata.

 

But everything else in your post, I agree with.

 

 

Oh yeah forgot that one :p

 

That stigma applies to the women who aren't fortunate in dating

TheCoolest Established Member

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Lol you are stupid. Keywords: PLUS SIZED (fat) TWO KIDS THAT AREN'T YOURS. (gross)

 

Would never put it in her/10.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Lol you are stupid. Keywords: PLUS SIZED (fat) TWO KIDS THAT AREN'T YOURS. (gross)

 

Would never put it in her/10.

 

I know, someone who is coming to the tabl with WEIGHT and two kids has the nerve to be demanding-lol

alexlakeman Established Member

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I wouldn't be too picky if I were you and go with it... You might have a shot with her......

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t233764/

 

After the date these are two things that has me believing I probably won't see her again.................

 

 

.............So I didn't go for the kiss but had had extended hug. Guess I'm still shy.

 

Date 3 will be a dinner date and probably a movie.

 

I'm 34 and she is 30

 

What happened to date 3?

 

I ........ She told me that I seemed NERVOUS during our first meeting which made me very disappointed in myself. /QUOTE]

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t278594/ This is her right?

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t257723/

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I wouldn't date a guy who didn't have a car.

 

I also wouldn't date a guy who felt like my weight made me unworthy of having standards or that my kids were gross.

 

Come to think of it, if the real world were like Loveshack, I'd rather be single.

TheCoolest Established Member

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I wouldn't date a guy who didn't have a car.

 

I also wouldn't date a guy who felt like my weight made me unworthy of having standards or that my kids were gross.

 

Come to think of it, if the real world were like Loveshack, I'd rather be single.

 

Real world is much harsher then loveshack.

 

And if a guy thought your weight made you unworthy or that your kids were a problem he probably wouldn't date you either...

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I'm sorry, a person's weight is not what makes a person beautiful.
But it can make them repulsive.

 

If a woman needs a car to get aroused, well, let's just say she's a pervert.

 

This woman on the other hand is clearly on a lookout for a provider. Be thankful she rejected you. Obese gold digger with two kids isn't exactly the most attractive option on the market.

udolipixie Established Member

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But it can make them repulsive.

 

If a woman needs a car to get aroused, well, let's just say she's a pervert.

 

This woman on the other hand is clearly on a lookout for a provider. Be thankful she rejected you. Obese gold digger with two kids isn't exactly the most attractive option on the market.

 

 

She's a gold digger because she won't date him because he doesn't have a car?

 

Perhaps he's at an age where to expect that adult man should have a car providen the exception of no funds or prefering different mode of transportation.

 

To her maybe the preferring different mode was okay but not lack of funds.

^ Why would you date if you can't afford to go 50/50?

 

 

Being on the lookout for a provider isn't a bad thing if you looking for a long term relationship leaning towards marriage like some women with kids are.

 

Obese /= plus size.

 

Who says he himself is an attractive market?

rafallus Established Member

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She's a gold digger because she won't date him because he doesn't have a car?

 

Perhaps he's at an age where to expect that adult man should have a car providen the exception of no funds or prefering different mode of transportation.

You're killing me. Why OTHERWISE wouldn't one have a car?

 

Being on the lookout for a provider isn't a bad thing if you looking for a long term relationship leaning towards marriage like some women with kids are.

 

Obese /= plus size.

 

Who says he himself is an attractive market?

As far as I am concerned, she can demand guy to be CEO of one of TOP 50 Fortune 500 companies, with ripped physique and 10 inch dong. I just can't help but chuckle, if woman demanding that is obese and with kids.
udolipixie Established Member

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You're killing me. Why OTHERWISE wouldn't one have a car?

 

Lots of guys bumming rides from others so they waste money which they could have used to save up for a car.

 

They don't even offer gas money.:mad:

 

Then there are the guys using mommy or daddy's car (the parents didn't give it to them they just using it).

 

And the ones that use a relative's or friend's as their own.

 

 

 

 

As far as I am concerned, she can demand guy to be CEO of TOP 50 Fortune 500 companies, with ripped physique and 10 inch dong. I just can't help but chuckle, if woman demanding that is obese and with kids.

 

I see plus size.

 

How does overweight, chubby, fat = obese to you?

 

And now you're adding in that obese.

 

Do you know her height & weight?

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I know, someone who is coming to the tabl with WEIGHT and two kids has the nerve to be demanding-lol

 

At least she is disclosing it upfront, unlike you OP...

Well maybe it had something to do with me not mentioning I was chunky and had thininning hair-lol I never bring that up before meeting someone. All I said that I was tall and stood at 6 foot 6. But normally my face and height overshadows my weight and hair but Iguess not yesterday. It didn't seem to bother the girl I was on 3rd date with friday night. Oh well

 

Opppsss

oaks Established Member

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Why do women think men are stupid?

 

It's nice that she wants to give you a second chance. And quit describing her as plus-sized as if that's a problem when you're not exactly Slimmer of the Year yourself!

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It's nice that she wants to give you a second chance. And quit describing her as plus-sized as if that's a problem when you're not exactly Slimmer of the Year yourself!
Now that changes things quite a bit. I take previous posts back (at least on points applying directly to him). Edited by rafallus
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This is one of the few situations where I think hit it and quit it is entirely acceptable.

 

I agree, hit it and quit it playa.

oaks Established Member

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Am I the only one who finds it disgusting that this thread is an excuse to slam single mothers?

 

 

No, but I was ignoring it in favour of being critical of the size hypocrisy.

rafallus Established Member

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Actually, not wanting to date women with children is fair choice - you have to realize you will never be the most important one to her, so you have to make some sacrifice. Just because not everyone wants to make it, doesn't mean they're immoral or evil.

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