netchannels Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 So there is this one girl we have known each other for 1 year, but have got to know each other even better over the months. So we started flirting sexually, verbally and physically as well. She implied this one time I have feeling for her, and I did not really respond to it. So a month ago on my birthday I got drunk and was hitting on her quite overtly and I was later told she seemed uncomfortable. But the next time we hung out we were flirting again. She is usually very closed and reserved, with others. But she is considered a bit of a flirt, but with me she is over the top with flirting. So few days ago I asked her to join me and my bro to pick a gift for a relative, and she came, so she pulls me away from my bro, and says (in a flirty way) "I see you're the one with the looks in the family",and I ask her just family? She say "No your actually quite attractive ( again in flirty way)". So we all went for lunch, and the 2 of us shared a desert. Than went for shopping, and when we were shopping for necklace, I asked if she wanted help putting it on, and she readily agreed. This happened a couple of times. She never asked for my help with it, but every time I offered she readily agreed. When I did not offer she did not ask for it. So the next day few of us decided to party and we were partying at her place. So that time she flirts with me in front of her high school friends and they call her out. So she immideatly tells them how I flirt with them. So someone knocks at her door at that time and she goes to get it. When she was at the door it seemed like she was preventing someone from getting in. The next thing you know there is this guy there who is puling her aside and trying to talk to her. So that guy takes her to her room. Later he comes out and he tells us that he is her ex and is trying to get her back so please keep it down. So finally she kicks him out and it was just me her and 2 of our other close friends. After her ex came she had nothing to drink, but I was intoxicated. So she comes right up to me and figures out how intoxicated I am and figures this is the best tym to get things out of me. So she cuts to the chase and asks me " What I think of her?", and everyone knew she was taking advantage of me being intoxicated and called her out. But she kept going, I always gave a very discrete answer and did not tell her anything. She asked me a couple of times and our friends change the topic.But she brings it back. Finally my friend asks what I think of her and she say, that me and her are very similar, in terms of childhood, background, family, wealth, social status.But I was able to tell my parents to p*ss of and do what I want with my life but she was not able to do that. She said my relationship with women are complicated, and I don't tell people what really matter, and what I should really say is what really matters, and she kept asking her what I thought of her, but I did not say anything to her. Than she asks me what I thought of her again and gave a very discrete answer again. Than she asks me "in a scale of 1-10, what do you think of me", and I ask her in what sense and she say " in any sense" and I gave a very discreet answer again. The next day she opened up abt her ex and she tells me, "he asked her if she likes me" and she said she told him "If I like him I would be with him". I thought that meant she does not like me, But my friends say that's her way of saying, why haven’t you asked me out? What do you think?
RedRussian8080 Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 This girl is VERY insecure and full of drama, yes she is young and it's fun, but long term would you think she is worth the effort? I mean have sex with her, that is what she wants, but then be cold about it and before sex, tell her you only want non-committed type of a relationship with her. She still will be down for sex, so give it to her if she is really cute or hot. Just don't lose your head over this girl bro.
Author netchannels Posted July 5, 2011 Author Posted July 5, 2011 Yes it is fun right now. But the real question is if she like's me that way.
thatone Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 she got rid of the ex because she had you around to give her attention. she would not do that again to you six months down the line why?
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