Miss TT Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 Hi All, Any advice will be appreciated. I met someone and went out on three dates, on the third we slept together, fooled around in the morning too... and he drove me home the following day. (Yesterday) As juvenile as this may sound I did expect to hear from him...as early as last night, I know, kinda anxious. I have not yet heard from him, just wondering, shall i just accept that we have slept together and now he is no longer interested, or am I overeacting and being 'typical' Also, shall I maybe contact him...or for now, is that a no?
lolo1234 Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 Before you guys slept together did you get the feeling that he really liked you?
Author Miss TT Posted July 4, 2011 Author Posted July 4, 2011 Im not sure to what level, but yes, there was plenty of laughs and chemistry and even the next day had some laughs and played around. I am only just back on the dating scene, and clearly, have no idea what to expect and not to expect.
spiderowl Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 It would have been decent of him to contact you yesterday evening just to say he had a great time and to let you know he's thinking of you. He hasn't done that. It may be that he's following some sort of 'rule' he thinks applies about not seeming too needy, but basically any decent guy would have been in touch - nay, would have been desperate to be in touch and make contact again. I'd give him a couple of days and if you haven't heard from him by then, write him off. It depends what you want out of this, of course. If you want casual sex and he gets in touch after a few days, then fine, it's up to you. If you want a meaningful relationship with a guy who cares about you and isn't just looking for a booty call, then bear in mind this guy doesn't feel as much need for contact as you do and he hasn't got you on his mind in the same way. P.S. It really irks me when guys can't understand why a woman should expect anything more than sex from a guy who was charming and friendly and apparently caring beforehand. It's just a way of excusing bad behaviour and blaming the woman for expecting him to be decent.
D-Lish Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 Don't contact him....Please! 3rd Date sleeping together is not some crazy faux-paus you made. It could be he's a player, it could be he only wanted sex and achieved his goal. He might be trying to play it cool. Regardless, someone that really likes another person and wants to keep seeing them is going to acknowledge the person after they have sex with them. The more they like them, the sooner they are going to acknowledge them! If he's not texting you, write him off.
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