northstarr Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 (edited) So I just want to be set free from thoughts/feelings of my unrequited love that I see at work everyday. I am 75% sure he is not interested. But I am tired of acting like I am now uninterested in him- as I have dropped BIG hints that I may be interested up until recently. I want to walk up to him, tap him on the shoulder and say, "Hey fool! (or something like that) didn't you notice me sweatin' you? and walk away. I am frustrated with his long stares, waving from afar, reaching out to touch me but avoiding meeting me alone even when I feign needing his help with something. In life I ALWAYS feel better and can move on when I stop acting and open up with my true feelings and intentions. It's how I put many boyfriends, bad situations out of my mind for good. I just want to make sure that do it with attitude and toughness and walk away feeling good once I tell him that I was interested all this time (like he lost out). HOW DA HELL, do i pull that off?? Edited June 28, 2011 by northstarr
mhm407 Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I guess people are different... Personally when I've shown very obvious interest in a guy and he doesn't reciprocate, I just let it go. This happened to me a while back. It sucked, but I got over it. The last thing I would have wanted would be to give him the further satisfaction of confessing my feelings out loud when they should have already been obvious. But what matters here is what makes you feel better! The only thing I would warn you about is that you shouldn't go out of your way to say something to him about this--I think it would have the opposite of the desired effect. Be patient and wait until an opportunity naturally presents itself where it would make sense to say something like that. It will probably happen if you're around him a lot.
Author northstarr Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 mhm, believe me, I know that walking away is the best thing!! I am trying so hard to do that instead of opening my mouth. It's just that it all feels so unresolved. Did I read to much into his attention? Is he just super shy? I want closure! I will do my best to keep my trap shut if only I knew how to move on with out opening my loud mouth!! He said he would help me with my assignment but would avoid setting a time to sit down with me or miss out appt. that he set up but call me later to see if I still needed him. If I creeped him out, why call me? why stop me to talk in the hallway? He is a nice guy and definitely not an ******* so that is why it is hard to just walk away. Sigh..........
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