singlelife Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Ok come on ladies...what are the signs a woman is wanting to get with you. We all know women flirt but what are the real signs.
Rinas Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Possible assumptions: 1)She calls you for no apparent reason, she's just 'bored'. 2)Every time you look at her she is smiling at you. 3)She finds a way to touch you when you’re talking to her. 4)She sends a drink over to you. 5)She gets someone say “hi” to you for her. 6)She's "Everywhere" - Shows up everywhere you normally go. Coincidence? Nope. 7)She's always available. 8)She'll want to know more about you. 9)She'll include you in future plans. 10)She's jealous of other women you talk to. Now of course most of these can be put into platonic terms as well, but generally a normal person will be able to read the signs between platonic or otherwise.
Author singlelife Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 Possible assumptions: 1)She calls you for no apparent reason, she's just 'bored'. 2)Every time you look at her she is smiling at you. 3)She finds a way to touch you when you’re talking to her. 4)She sends a drink over to you. 5)She gets someone say “hi” to you for her. 6)She's "Everywhere" - Shows up everywhere you normally go. Coincidence? Nope. 7)She's always available. 8)She'll want to know more about you. 9)She'll include you in future plans. 10)She's jealous of other women you talk to. Now of course most of these can be put into platonic terms as well, but generally a normal person will be able to read the signs between platonic or otherwise. hmmmm intersting
spiderowl Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I'd disagree with a lot of the above. It depends a lot on her personality. If she's extrovert and outgoing, she may do some of those things. If she's shy and reserved, she may avoid eye contact and be bashful. She may blush when you catch her eye or are near her. She may go quiet when you are around (doesn't know what to say). If she likes you, when you try to talk to her, she will join in with you. If she doesn't like you, she may respond politely but then will take the earliest opportunity to get away or to start talking to someone else instead (even possibly ignore you). If she likes you, she won't mind you doing things for her, like getting her a chair or helping her with her coat or getting her a drink. If she doesn't like you, she'll be very uncomfortable with you helping her as she won't want to give you any encouragement. She'll shrug off help rather than saying thank you and smiling at you. She'll avoid catching your eye or picking up on things you say. If she likes you, she may catch your eye from time to time and she'll hear what you say and he happy to respond. Basically, if she doesn't like you, she'll avoid or discourage any interaction whatsoever.
Rinas Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 My list had to do with some women in general, not all of them. As mentioned, it can be done in a platonic sense too. It differs depending on the woman in question.
Saxis Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 4)She sends a drink over to you. Unless that drink is a shot known as a "Limp D*ck"... Yes, I'm speaking from experience...
loveshymanc Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Possible assumptions: 1)She calls you for no apparent reason, she's just 'bored'. 2)Every time you look at her she is smiling at you. 3)She finds a way to touch you when you’re talking to her. 4)She sends a drink over to you. 5)She gets someone say “hi” to you for her. 6)She's "Everywhere" - Shows up everywhere you normally go. Coincidence? Nope. 7)She's always available. 8)She'll want to know more about you. 9)She'll include you in future plans. 10)She's jealous of other women you talk to. Now of course most of these can be put into platonic terms as well, but generally a normal person will be able to read the signs between platonic or otherwise. What about if you are across a room or something like that, before you actually get to know her?
LadyFlame Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 If I fancy someone I act like I'm not interested at all. Unless they give me the come-on, I pretty much act like they don't exist, or that they're just like everyone else.
Feelin Frisky Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I notice it as double-takes--when you see someone scanning and they pass you with their eyes and then quickly come back. Not necessarily if it just happens once but if I see it at least more than once. It's usually a sign that it's cool to make some contact--after all, they want to see you better.
rafallus Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Ok come on ladies...what are the signs a woman is wanting to get with you. We all know women flirt but what are the real signs. She hangs around for more. That's about all I care about. Petty stuff, like playing with hair, doesn't matter.
carhill Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 OP, do you just want to get laid or are you looking for a LTR? I've experienced the gamut and IMO, at the end of the day, when the lady is proactively there, watching your back and genuinely interested in you, she's got the potential for a real mate. In my 52 on this rock, those examples, cherished as they might be, are few and far between.
loveshymanc Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 If I fancy someone I act like I'm not interested at all.. Im intrigued by that to be honest. Why is that? Is it to make the guy want you more? Is there not a risk that could be counter productive and send the wrong signal, or is the fegined lack of interest coupled with smaller more positive signals?
carhill Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 Heard recently: 'A good relationship needs a little animosity' Color me exceedingly ignorant but when I like someone (whom I don't know) or love someone (whom I do know), I endeavor to be proactively kind and caring. Was I socialized incorrectly? Apparently so, given the numbers of women I see who equate 'animosity', 'conflict', 'drama' and 'abuse' with love/like/attraction. What's even more interesting is how this particular subset assigns differing perceptions to differing dynamics. Even if they thrive on drama in their romantic relationship, don't dare introduce any drama, real or imagined, into their platonic relationship; you'll get erased. They'll hang on by the last pubic hair to that dramatic 'love affair' and piss away otherwise healthy friendships along the way. Moral: Avoid incompatible people
Author singlelife Posted July 1, 2011 Author Posted July 1, 2011 Not understanding why anyone would ignore someone they like.
loveshymanc Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Not understanding why anyone would ignore someone they like. With me its just mega shyness. I get so nervous around them, that I just cant function. Avoiding her eases that
alphamale Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 basically at some point in time you'll find your penis in one of her orifices
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