blackwidow290 Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 (edited) I recently joined a dating website. My ex boyfriend that I've broken up from and hadn't talked to for about a year had viewed my profile and im-ed each other. He was the one that dumped me by the way after I told him my education and career plans, he said that he didn't want to hold me back and that he was slightly envious. But also, he said that he had seen my true colours and Im not sure what he meant, but I accepted the break up and moved on. I had been seriously involved with someone else from a month after the break up and my ex on the site asked me about it in the form "who was your victim this time" and I'm not sure why he's victimizing himself when clearly he left me after I tried for almost 4 years of my life and loved him unconditionally.. I also cried my heart out to him but he said we're not right. He ended the conversation by saying that he just remembered how much he hates me. And a few days later he deleted his account from both pof and okcupid. I dont get it. why? Why does he hate me? Edited June 26, 2011 by blackwidow290
Jono85 Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 not sure. but maybe to do with you getting with someone else within a month of a 4 year rel. breakup. but either way sounds like he dumped u, so that shouldn't be as big of a deal. probs something to do with the true colors comment. obv he saw something in u that changed his view on you...what that is, we cannot guess.
Rinas Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 It's not worth even responding to him to begin with. He saw that you were there, some jealously sparked up, and he felt the need to be bitter. You've moved on, don't question his actions. Just be thankful that he's gone and you're moving on.
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