gsebbz Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 I have recent become friends with a guy that I met through my brother's girlfriend and we had an instant attraction. However, he told my brother's girlfriend that he didn't like me in that way and would rather be friends with me which I wanted too. Well a week later he told me he did like me and he was just afraid to ask me out..then asked me out and I said yes but was a bit hesitant. We went on a couple of dates, he was very affectionate (hugging and kissing) and I liked it but felt awkward as I wanted to take things slow. Two dates later he said to me we werent compatible and said we should just be friends, at this point I was very frustrated and thought ok just stay friends. Had a get together with friends last Saturday, he was there and he was all over me! My mate told me that he does like me, I confronted him and he said that he does but didnt like the fact that I wasn't as affectionate as him, he just liked to hug me all the time and I like some space lol well we started dating again as we talked it through and then again hes being cold, he went on holiday a couple of days ago and is now gone for a week and didn't even hug me goodbye. Should I end it when he comes back? Just my heart melts when i look at him lol but then again I get really frustrated because I want to be with him but he just pushes me away!
thatone Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 sounds like you're the one pushing him away. there's nothing for you to end, as far as he is concerned he has ended it already. if you don't want that you have to explain yourself to him, he has explained himself to you already so there's nothing to discuss about him, it's about what you are going to do. you can't sit and pretend that he'll do what you want him to do and have it magically happen. either you go along with the pace he is trying to establish, or if not you tell him why and see if he will agree to your terms. he can't read your mind.
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