Homing Posted June 19, 2011 Posted June 19, 2011 i met this girl, called her a couple of times and two weeks later I went to her place and made out for a while, we didn't have sex cause she needed to go somewhere soon. anyways, she was always busy with work (works around 12 hrs on some days) and it was always hard to get a hold of her by phone, didn't like that so i told her. we talked and she said she wasn't interested in a relationship and said i deserved better. huh really? now what does that mean?
Nexus One Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 i met this girl, called her a couple of times and two weeks later I went to her place and made out for a while, we didn't have sex cause she needed to go somewhere soon. anyways, she was always busy with work (works around 12 hrs on some days) and it was always hard to get a hold of her by phone, didn't like that so i told her. we talked and she said she wasn't interested in a relationship and said i deserved better. huh really? now what does that mean? It depends, in my opinion it can mean 3 things: 1. She thinks you deserve someone who can spend more time with you and give you the attention you deserve. 2. She thinks/knows she's not a good person and will hurt you, so she pushes you away to prevent herself from hurting you. 3. She wants to brush you off, so she makes up this excuse.
Author Homing Posted June 20, 2011 Author Posted June 20, 2011 if it helps the OP her part time job was being a stripper.
Eddie Edirol Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 if it helps the OP her part time job was being a stripper. It means she found out she didnt like you when she made out with you. Thats why she bailed before sex and made up an excuse. She also could have been using you as a rebound and it didnt work.
4you Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 You probably deserve better too, that's what it means. You just haven't gone as far as actually saying it.
USCGAviator Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 Hey at least she didn't tell you she couldn't have sex with you because of "pillow pants".
daisydukes Posted June 20, 2011 Posted June 20, 2011 You deserve better my friend. Time to let this one go.....
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