kbme311 Posted June 16, 2011 Posted June 16, 2011 I am taking salsa and there's an attractive guy in the class. There are currently four of us in the class, myself, him, an elderly lady and a married woman with two children. Last week the married woman asked me to hang around after class this week to go for a tea. She said that she wanted me to go last week but I had left after class. So this week all four of us went to a cafe and I thought it was a great opportunity to get to know him better and did give him my number. On the way home three of us were walking in the same direction. Myself, the guy I like and the married woman. We passed the guy's house and he invited us into the building to see the inside as it's interesting architecturally. Then he showed us the inside of his apartment. Myself and the married woman walked home as we live in the same area. When I got home I looked at the guy's website and texted him to say that I liked his work (he's a photographer). He texted back, said thanks then asked if the other woman was ok as upon leaving his place had said she was planning on leaving the class! I hadn't even noticed that she'd texted anyone. She was saying how nice she thinks he is and hadn't told him on their previous outing to the cafe that she was married with two children. (Quite a large chunk of your life to miss out don't you think?) Now I'm confused. I don't know what to make of any of this. I'm thinking that she is using me as an excuse to her husband in order to stay out after class. She was very insistent on me staying and coming along with them and I heard her mention my name to her husband on the phone on the way back. She asked this guy to cook for her that evening but he said he had no food in the house so she said she'd go and get some...! I can only assumed she's into him. What do you make of this?
Saxis Posted June 16, 2011 Posted June 16, 2011 Classic housewife fiasco... Husband gets home from work, she makes excuses to go out because she's been cooped up at home all day with the kids. Really, she's just seeking attention from this guy and probably more if she can get it. When she gets caught or things fall apart, she'll blame her husband for not paying enough attention to her. Poor bastard is probably sitting at home, none the wiser to the fact he's about to lose everything in a bitter divorce... Yet still the best thing that will ever happen to him. Been there... Looks like the same situation developing here.
Author kbme311 Posted June 16, 2011 Author Posted June 16, 2011 Classic housewife fiasco... Husband gets home from work, she makes excuses to go out because she's been cooped up at home all day with the kids. Really, she's just seeking attention from this guy and probably more if she can get it. When she gets caught or things fall apart, she'll blame her husband for not paying enough attention to her. Poor bastard is probably sitting at home, none the wiser to the fact he's about to lose everything in a bitter divorce... Yet still the best thing that will ever happen to him. Been there... Looks like the same situation developing here. So you agree and I'm not reading too much into this. Damn! She's not a housewife, she works full time. I suppose it depends on whether or not he's willing to get involved with her as he didn't know she was married. I'll keep well away then. Another one bites the dust.
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