citybythebay Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 So I am gay, however I feel the dynamic here is similar and hope someone can offer advice. I started dating this guy a month ago and for the first 2 weeks he was super affectionate, would call me, text me things like “kiss” or “I miss you”. He would invite me to social events and introduce me to friends. After the first two weeks he stated that we needed to take a little time off from each other because he was neglecting some of his duties and he is also busy training for a major leukemia bike ride from Seattle to Portland in July. I totally understand this and respect it however I feel we have went from cloud nine to six feet under. He never texts me good morning, only replies when I text for the most. Never responds to statements like ‘I miss you”. He has went a whole week without seeing me and we are finally meeting for dinner this evening. He never calls anymore. He doesn’t invite me out to outings where I could definitely attend (had a tony party this past weekend did not invite me to). He used to want me to come over for the night even just to cuddle and he never wants that anymore. He is always busy. Last week I briefly mentioned how he seemed to be getting very busy and he made it a point to say he understands my worrying however he has not lost interest and I have nothing to worry about. He says these things yet his actions say another. I am at a point where I have non stop anxiety in the pit of my stomach all day and night thinking about it. How to I talk to him about this this evening? I want to address it and try and salvage the relationship. I really care about him and he has made me feel so happy. Now I just feel sad and I don’t think it is an issue for him.
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