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Can you really be yourself With Women you talk to?


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People say be your self. but being yourself doesn't really work.

 

Women dont' like men like me. But i'm being me, so then what?

I have to be another person?

 

 

For example at my (FORMER) job, all the women there teased me and would get angry because i was quiet. Even when i tried my best to say something they would tease me. just cause i spoke slow.

 

So i dont know how you can be yourself.

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Women who do that are garbage and aren't worth talking to.

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what do you mean spoke slow?

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Women dont' like men like me. But i'm being me, so then what?

I have to be another person?

 

So it's your nature to think of yourself as "stupid and ugly"? Sorry, not buying it.

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So it's your nature to think of yourself as "stupid and ugly"? Sorry, not buying it.

Then you don't know people or read his previous posts.

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Then you don't know people or read his previous posts.

 

My response was based on his past posts...

ya done?

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My response was based on his past posts...

ya done?

Don't see how that's possible unless this is a troll.

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I have no problem talking to women. :cool:

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Translation: I don't buy that this insecurity is "being himself." Insecurity can be overcome, and is by no means authentic. It compromises the person, rendering him/her unable to truly be who he/she is. Chances are that is what is coming through to women: lack of self assurance.

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Translation: I don't buy that this insecurity is "being himself." Insecurity can be overcome, and is by no means authentic. It compromises the person, rendering him/her unable to truly be who he/she is.

 

nor do i buy the "speaks too slow" thing. buddy diliberto was born with a speech impediment, yet he was a radio broadcaster in New Orleans for 50 years, one of the city's most well known personalities.

 

and this guy is complaining because he speaks at a different pace than everyone else? cry me a river.

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Being yourself is the correct way to go. Why the hell wouldn't you?

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