YYCkid Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 So here is the deal. I was introduced to this girl who is a friends co-worker. I asked for her number which she happily gave to me. I gave here a call and we had a wicked first date. I let 2 days go by and called her again, this was Sat and I got her voicemail. I said hey, blah blah blah gimme a call when you get a sec. On monday afternoon she texted me, sorry I missed your call I was busy on the weekend, we texted for a bit and then she stopped texting me. I can understand, I know she is a very busy girl, I was thinking of calling her on say tues night to try and set up another date. I am wondering if she is playing hard to get or is just being flaky, or am I jumping the gun and need to give it time... Cheers
AmericanHoney Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Maybe because I have seen He's just not that into you ( works for guys too) usually if someone isn't calling you back or they are " always busy" that is a lame excuse and it is time to move on because if someone is into you they will generally call back when they say they will or they won't use the I am busy excuse. Trust me if someone likes you they will do everything they can to call or text you back believe me.
oaks Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 Hard to say, so try calling her once more (and leave a message if she doesn't answer). AmericanHoney is right, but sometimes you'll find a girl who's too shy to call until she knows you a bit better.
Dorie Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 It doesn't sound promising OP. She stopped texting before another date had been established. Doesn't appear she's very interested.
Intergalactic Posted June 14, 2011 Posted June 14, 2011 give her a call in a couple of days and if she doesnt answer, leave a voicemail. don't text again. i say call again because i know that i am really flaky with calls and texts - i hate talking on the phone so i often don't answer, even when it's close friends or a guy i really like calling (bad i know, my philosophy is: if it's important, they'll leave a voicemail and i can listen to it right away and judge if its important enough to call them back.. i don't like to chat, i get awkward), and i can get bored with texting, i don't like to have conversations via text and if someone sends me something, i'll often look at it and then leave it til later to answer... and sometimes i forget. i'm a crappy communicator unless it's in person though so yaaaah
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