Bateman Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 So tomorrow is my last day in town before I move about 7 hours away. I have been NC with my ex for about 5 months. I just graduated college and have about 2 friends left in town, very small chance at landing a job in this town and I am finally going home. I feel sad though...I want to contact and say goodbye and leave on good terms but I know that I cannot face her without feeling things so I am not going to contact her. I am excited to be starting a new life but at the same time I am a little down about leaving her behind...I have completely mixed emotions right now. Should I try and say goodbye? Link to post Share on other sites
J0N Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Its funny you should mention this. Tomorrow I am moving about 2,000 miles away from where I currently live. I have been NC for nearly 9 months myself. Part of me does want to reach out and wish her a proper farewell, but I have decided that it would only bring up old painful memories and thoughts and might make my transition more difficult than it already will be. If I were you and she hasn't reached out in 5+ months, I would just let it go. She has clearly already left you behind... Just my $.02 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bateman Posted June 9, 2011 Author Share Posted June 9, 2011 Agreed...I just feel like I need to tie up some loose ends. Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 DONT DO IT LEAVE, I PROMISE YOU YOU WILL FEEL BETTER I did this 5 years ago and it was the best decision I ever made. She called me 3 years later and told me she made a mistake blah blah blah and I just laughed at her after listening and said good bye. You're starting a whole new life, move on, leave your ex in the past Link to post Share on other sites
J0N Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Wilson, I have a feeling what happened to you is going to happen to me. I know that she will never find another guy who was as good to her as I was. Who cared about her like I did, but hey that is her problem now. Not mine. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bateman Posted June 9, 2011 Author Share Posted June 9, 2011 DONT DO IT LEAVE, I PROMISE YOU YOU WILL FEEL BETTER I did this 5 years ago and it was the best decision I ever made. She called me 3 years later and told me she made a mistake blah blah blah and I just laughed at her after listening and said good bye. You're starting a whole new life, move on, leave your ex in the past Thank you. That was all I needed to silence that stupid voice in my head. Haha. Link to post Share on other sites
stopthemadness Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Sorry for your pain and heart ache. But leaving is a good thing. Starting over new smwhere else, again. Good thing. Good luck. And remember, everything happens for a reason. You will one day Love again. We all will......... Link to post Share on other sites
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