fishin32 Posted April 2, 2011 Posted April 2, 2011 I posted a thread about this not too long ago http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3299852#post3299852 You don't have to read that if you don't want as I sum it up here and have some updates since then. So long story short through mutual friends I met this great girl this past fall. She flirted with me every time we were together and I eventually asked her out. The dates/hangouts together were great. I was having a great time and she seemed to be really enjoying our times together as well, and she even asked at one point to hang out more than we have been. So we and some other friends went down to Florida for a week for Spring Break and suddenly her mood towards me changed. She became very avoidant of me and could barely even look at me. I asked her twice down there if she still liked me (once drunk and once sober) and she told me yes. She eventually explained things further when we got back. She said she had a "freak out" down there and a lot of things have hit her all at once. She told me she wasn't emotionally ready to be in a relationship again (she had been in a relationship previously that turned out to have a really bad breakup), school is about to get ridiculously tough and stressed for her, that she is having eating/body issues so she is having health issues. All of this is true for a fact, she is not lying. The week after we got back she passed out/blacked out during a presentation at school. At the beginning of all of this I didn't take this situation very well and broke down and called her and texted her. Meanless to say It didn't help things and now she wants space from me and basically no communications until the rest of the semester. She said she couldn't afford to care about anyone but herself or she is going to have real problems. She hasn't ruled out dating/hanging out again though. Very understandable with all this but I wonder sometimes if she isn't interested in me anymore with that sudden avoidant behavior. So she has a little over three weeks in her semester. I am trying my best to honor her wish and leave her alone, but with everything going on in her life I want to be there for her through this tough time in her life, but I know I can't. So how do I get her off my mind during this "no communication" time and move on in my life? It's hard because I'm not done with her as I eventually want to get back together with her. I am always thinking about her. I worry and care about this girl so much! It's also hard because she used to want to talk to me all of the time, and now I am cut off from her all of the sudden.
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