Eve Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 She is very average looking, not completely unfortunate but not even pretty. Anyways, he would ask her questions about her day and she would give him one word answers with her back turned towards her computer. The more she ingnored him, the more he tried to chat her up. He offered her a glass of wine and she told him "Nah, can you please not talk to me today? I am preoccupied". Then she went to bed at like 9pm. I stayed up with him for about 2 hours and he couldn't stop talking about her. What did I do? Did I leave a bit of a mess? Is she like this because I did or said X Y Z? She was nice to me yesterday. Can you believe she actually said "preoccupied"? This is so rude! I mean I don't give a f... but this is just .... On and on he went. Then he actually made lunch for her that night to take to work tomorrow. In the morning, she was a little friendlier. He told me "See? I made lunch that's why. Maybe if I make lunch for her every day..." While he says that he "hates" her, I can sense that he is developing quite a strong crush on her. No doubt it's just a matter of time before they end up in bed Meanwhile, I was there, cooking for him, talking to him, being nice to him and he completely ditched me. I thought this quite funny.. I would have called her assertive rather than a bitch. Bitch to me means manipulative. Sounds to me like she was just 'shutting this guy down', which is often necessary. Take care, Eve x
runner Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 confident, assertive, strong sense of self, knows what she wants...absolutly attractive. being a cold hearted selfish bitch...nope. unfortunatly some people tend to confuse the two qualities.
threebyfate Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 *pulls out the popcorn and observes more stereotyping* You'll find bitches in both genders.
alphamale Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 Is this true about men? only if she's good looking
Nexus One Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 I don't like bitches and I seriously doubt the guys that say they do. I'm not sure they have ever seen a real bitch do her thing. Like someone else mentioned in this thread, there's a difference between being assertive and being a bitch.
musemaj11 Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 This is true. It actually works on all animals (including humans). This is why I said once that if you wanna be good with women, watch 'the dog whisperer'. What works on dogs will work on humans too.
Pyro Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 confident, assertive, strong sense of self, knows what she wants...absolutly attractive. being a cold hearted selfish bitch...nope. unfortunatly some people tend to confuse the two qualities. ^^this right here.
mr.dream merchant Posted March 18, 2011 Posted March 18, 2011 Any self-respecting guy isn't going to put up with it at all or very little. Sometimes I'm attracted to what seems to others as a "bitchy" woman but really she's a very strong, opinionated, and confident woman much like my mother who a lot of people were intimidated by. If a woman is acting like a bitch, well then, I'm going to do one of two things depending on how mature and gentlemanlike I feel like being: 1. Treat her like one, basically, like ****. or 2. Forget about her and move on to another woman. In today's society, as a younger man, you have to be what others will deem as "cold hearted". But not to the point of being disrespectful, you just have to learn not to put up with any crap. People say I'm dismissive of women and their emotions, yeah to a certain degree I am, but only with women who rub me the wrong way. Why keep around and/or pay any mind to someone who's doing wrong by you several times on multiple levels? The dating game is messed up because a lot of people succumb to cowardice on both ends of the table. Men/women flake on each other because they're too scared to be honest about their feelings. Men/women put up with poor treatment for the same reason plus the fear of being alone/losing someone. It's becoming a mild norm for young people today to act in cowardice, and if you happen to be an individual who doesn't act this way, well then - you're either a bitch or an *******.
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