donnamaybe Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 If you think that the attentions of two married dudes is something to be proud of, then you have way bigger issues. Absolutely. Anyone can get that. What is to be proud of is having a solid, supportive, loving, sexy, nurturing relationship with someone who isn't inclined to run about and cheat on you behind your back.
jthorne Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 so does this mean this is all fun and games to you? That you are enjoying coming to a support board discussing how you like to do two married men at once?Serious question (and I'm NOT saying the OP applies!): Isn't that the definition of a troll? Someone who comes here not for support or discussion, but to stir things up?
sally4sara Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 Absolutely. Anyone can get that. What is to be proud of is having a solid, supportive, loving, sexy, nurturing relationship with someone who isn't inclined to run about and cheat on you behind your back. Then is this perhaps true misandry at its finest? Maybe the OP thinks so low of men that she doesn't believe any of them are capable of honorable love and fidelity? Is that the motivation behind an OW's actions? A don't ask for the impossible kind of attitude? Perhaps not for the ones who are married themselves - they did buy the cow so to speak. But perhaps it is for the ones who claim they prefer to be single and seek out MM?
26pointblue Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 This: Is probably what is behind this: Because I'm not sure how helping keep two wives in the dark about what their husbands are up to while ALSO keeping both of the married guys in the dark about each other has to do with being up front OR honest. But what do I know? I've never been in an affair or an OW. Not to mention how spilling the beans on an anonymous forum doesn't prove a thing for how upfront or honest a person is in their day to day life. I meant that it sounded to me like she was being honest and up front about her feelings. And she had been compared to some other OW so I'm not sure what Whichwayisup meant when she said that that OW was 'honest & up-front', & a great person, implying that Bouey isn't. By 'OW standards' [yes we are not being honest to the wife about the affair] what makes one OW honest & up-front & a great person & another not?? That was my question & it didn't really get answered. Regarding the bolded portion of your post, exactly. No one here knows how honest & upfront anyone is in their daily life, just because they're posting on a forum. That was what I was thinking as well.
26pointblue Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 She came her to boost, that's it. I haven't seen her give any advice to reach out to OW who are going through a rough time. Anyway, I'm bowing out of this thread since she isn't here for help. So an OW has to want help to come here? I'm asking a serious question. I thought part of the purpose was for discussion. What about all the non-OWs who are here, not really to 'help' but to judge? They can be here but not OWs who don't need help? I'm confused about the purpose of this forum.
Woggle Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 Then is this perhaps true misandry at its finest? Maybe the OP thinks so low of men that she doesn't believe any of them are capable of honorable love and fidelity? Is that the motivation behind an OW's actions? A don't ask for the impossible kind of attitude? Perhaps not for the ones who are married themselves - they did buy the cow so to speak. But perhaps it is for the ones who claim they prefer to be single and seek out MM? Many women who frequently mess around with married men are very much like this. They don't believe any man is honest so why even try? There very much is an undercurrent of misandry with many OW and if my friend is anything like most OM they are just the same.
donnamaybe Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 I'm asking a serious question. I thought part of the purpose was for discussion.Well, we are discussing the fact that this thread is coming across to many of us as some kind of misplaced braggadocio.
Lizzie60 Posted March 24, 2011 Posted March 24, 2011 Lizzie, is that you?? Sheesh where is that woman when you need her?! Coucou... nope.. it's not me.. I haven't been posting for months.. I have a few minutes today. To the OP.. good for you.. Two MMs.. that's nothing..
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