regretruefaith Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 I would definitely date a guy with glasses. My ex had the cutest pair. unfortunately, so did all the rest of the emo kids, but glasses can be very attractive. in my opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 why are you listening to what your friends say?? who gives a crap i wear glasses most of the time and i dont care. ppl like ppl for their personality. so anyway girls are attracted to guys whether or not they have glasses or braces. if your glasses may be outdated, i suggest you get some up-to-date glasses with thin frames which should look good on you As long as you dont act like a nerd, it should be smooth sailing buddy. Link to post Share on other sites
Fritz Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 Your friends are full of it as many others have said. Some like glasses, some don't. Anyone who turns you down solely because of it isn't worth your time (as they are clearly insane). I'm quite fond of women with glasses. The whole "intelligent/bookworm" works for me (ahh if only this stereotype were true all the time..). Just get a pair that you like, are comfortable and what fits best on your face (well, avoid urkel/50s frames). Also, get anti-fog lenses if at all possible, . Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 I wear glasses. I do okay with the ladies. Your friends are douchebags. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin I do okay with the ladies. just okay? Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 Probably much to the surprise of everyone here, I am not some ladies man with girls knocking down my door every night. Like I've said before, and I wasn't saying it just to get compliments, I was being 100% legit, I DO NOT see women checking me out when I go out anywhere. Every now and then perhaps, but that's about it. So yes. I do okay. Link to post Share on other sites
einahpets Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 oh for gods sakes. who ever told you that needs to grow up. i think glasses on men are very sexy. i try to get my boyfriend to wear his more often. maybe try a different pair? Link to post Share on other sites
Fedup&givingup Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 Have you HAD any trouble with girls in general? I find men that wear glasses VERY attractive. It makes them look sophisticated and distinguished. Link to post Share on other sites
Nim Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 Oy. What does that even matter whether or not a guy has glasses? Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted March 28, 2004 Share Posted March 28, 2004 Those who wear glasses are inferior and poor breeders. People who wear glasses have some obvious physical defect and should be shunned and mocked. I wear glasses, and I was not serious about the above. I have never heard of anyone outside of grade school making fun of a person for wearing glasses, unless the person wearing them had no taste in frames. I'm just very thankful that the technology behind eye glasses has evolved so much. I have mild astigmatism, and without the advances from science my lenses would be ridiculously thick. Link to post Share on other sites
Nenya14 Posted March 29, 2004 Share Posted March 29, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=blue][/color] I certainly dig guys with classes!!! My boyfriend is a real live surfer AND he wears glasses---granted he wears contacts 75% of the time...even when he wears glasses i still want to jump his bones! He's cute, sexy, smart AND cool. Glasses can make the man bro! Anne Link to post Share on other sites
Author alaman19 Posted March 29, 2004 Author Share Posted March 29, 2004 thanks everyone for all the replies you've certainly given me a better outlook on something that probably wasn't as big a problem as I've come to realize Link to post Share on other sites
Antaresia Posted April 1, 2004 Share Posted April 1, 2004 Would you ever date a guy who wore glasses?..Many people my friends included on this tell me "oh your just another geeky looking nerd and the girls aren't ever gonna go for you until you get rid of the glassess" or "your glasses make you look like a nerd and you couldn't handle a pretty girl like so and so".. Hi, another *proud* 4 eyed here I actually like men who wear glasses. Geeky looking nerds can be really attractive! Why don't you consider buying a new pair of glasses with a frame that really looks great on you. Looking for the right pair of glasses can be boring, but it is worth it- you find a frame that *really* suits you, girls might be literally drooling over you Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted April 1, 2004 Share Posted April 1, 2004 Oh, okay, wait a sec..... there, I had to wipe the nose print from the monitor 'cause I'm not wearing my frigging GLASSES! Women see men with glasses as sex perverts who view porn and jerk off ALL the time---I mean, didn't your mother ever tell you that if you keep touching "that" you will go blind? !!! The thicker the lens the more they jerk off! Seriously, A: Anyone who looks at people as "breeding material" first and foremost probably will never have to worry about it! B: If a girl refuses to go out with a guy because he wears glasses -- its totally the girls loss and the guy's lucky break not to be stuck with someone that shallow! (This goes both ways BTW) C: Everyone has different tastes. I think glasses can look good and I don't see it as a defect at all, puts me more in mind of someone who uses his brain - reading, working, etc. The right shape and size glasses can actually change (improve?) a persons initial appearance because they subtly change the shape of the face (raise or lower cheekbones, distract from large ears, diminish or increase the size of a nose or the depth of the eye socket, etc.) Link to post Share on other sites
Magnolia214 Posted April 1, 2004 Share Posted April 1, 2004 Glasses are sexy if you "feel" sexy. get my drifft? To make things a bit interesting you could wear glasses with different frames that would cordinate with your clothes. Once in a blue moon you could try wearing contacts. In the end if a girl can't date you becuase you wear glasses , she not worth your time. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 glasses nowadays have become a fashion statement. just think of all those times , the ads in magazines, you saw women with glasses....well if i would recall only 1/2 the time, but still! im also a proud 4 eyed. i have a few friends who hates wearing their glasses or switched to contacts, but that's their business. Link to post Share on other sites
Hypatia Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 Glasses look great on guys. I absolutely love them, and wear glasses/contacts myself. ANd I dig anything from rimless frames to black plastic Buddy Holly frames. Rock your spex man. Link to post Share on other sites
SCK- Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 i dont think that there is any thing wrong with a guy with glasses, i reackon i would date one Link to post Share on other sites
TazmaGurl Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 My husband has glasses, has had them since I met him at 13 years old. He is tall and skinny, has a big nose and even looks like a computer geek. (Except for the clothes he wears which are ultra preppy and very cool). But, those little things that make others think he may not be attractive is exactly what attracted me to him in the first place and continue to attract me to him. Those are the things that make my husband who he is. Love can create perfection in even the most flawed of us all. Tazmagurl Link to post Share on other sites
purehearted Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 I don't see any reason why a girl would consider wearing glasses a reason not to date someone. Link to post Share on other sites
WWDDFD Posted April 3, 2004 Share Posted April 3, 2004 Personally, I find glasses on a woman an incredible turn-on. Dunno why others don't, but whatever. On a side note, I wear glasses, and the girl I'm dating said that she doesn't like people with glasses but "they look fine on you". Can't tell if she was just being nice or not; but I suppose she must really like me for some reason because I was wearing them when she gave me her number. Link to post Share on other sites
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