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Russell

I thought you had 2 daughters, now you have a son as well?

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Russell

I thought you had 2 daughters, now you have a son as well?

Yes I have a 14 year old son who lives in Sweden!

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Yes I have a 14 year old son who lives in Sweden!

 

And yes I have two daughters with my current wife, one is 18 months the other. Is 5

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First day of NC IS over, it was hard not responding to her texts but i did it!

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Good man, well done! This is the start of the new you:)

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First day of NC IS over, it was hard not responding to her texts but i did it!

 

Excellent!

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What would you suggest

 

Read the past 38 pages of advice and stick with it.

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How long do you think I should give her to make up her mind?

 

my deadline would have been yesterday...

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First day of NC IS over, it was hard not responding to her texts but i did it!

 

Bravo, but as I said be prepared for anything. Be unavailable this weekend, go out and do stuff for yourself. Just brace yourself for a knock on the door at 6am on sat morning!! You need to be able to handle this without being a jerk. She will try to suck you into a row.

 

She comes round on Sat morn, and says

 

"Rusell lets go out as a family"( she will play the guilt card with the kids I promise you)

 

Your reply, " Wife I'd love to but I've made plans and need to be on a train to London in 20 minutes, bye"

 

then leave.

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Bravo, but as I said be prepared for anything. Be unavailable this weekend, go out and do stuff for yourself. Just brace yourself for a knock on the door at 6am on sat morning!! You need to be able to handle this without being a jerk. She will try to suck you into a row.

 

She comes round on Sat morn, and says

 

"Rusell lets go out as a family"( she will play the guilt card with the kids I promise you)

 

Your reply, " Wife I'd love to but I've made plans and need to be on a train to London in 20 minutes, bye"

 

then leave

RobI think she is too proud to come over, I was half expecting her last night, but I think she was angry that I haven't responded to her texts,Will be interesting to see what happens, but I think she will take it on the chin and not contact me this weekend! As a person in general she is very spiteful and petty![

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Great, I think it will be mucbh better for you to have the weekend without her

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Great, I think it will be mucbh better for you to have the weekend without her

 

Ok Rob! Lets do it properly, no f*****g about!

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Rob,

 

Do i mention the ultimatum, or just forget about it?

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Rob,

 

Do i mention the ultimatum, or just forget about it?

 

you know my thoughts. Don't mention it!! but please no communication with her this weekend..

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Ok I promise I won't

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You've already stated your position to her. No need to reiterate it.

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if your wife only knew there was a 40 page thread about her on a relationship message board :laugh:

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if your wife only knew there was a 40 page thread about her on a relationship message board :laugh:

 

Thats about 40 more pages than she deserves !

But she would **** if she knew

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:laugh:

Good luck Russell, come on, you can do this!!

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I'm rooting for you, Russell! We all are!

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C'mon Russ N/C all the way

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C'mon Russ N/C all the way

 

Two days NC woop-woop! Bloody hard, mind is racing! I think i have turned into a right softy.

 

I havent heard a thing from her today!

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I havent heard a thing from her today!

 

Ohh , you will!! If I'm wrong consider it a bonus

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Ohh , you will!! If I'm wrong consider it a bonus

 

Rob, it's nice not dealing with her drama,But N/c is bloody hard

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you're scared to death of losing her... I know because I've already lost my wife and its a sh*t place to be. you're scared of not living with your daughters and not being able to see them every day. i know, i completely relate. keep doing the right things and hopefully you'll get a good result.

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