shayan Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 kain, I'm sorry. well, just keep your space during this time. Try talking to other girls and moving on, do not sit aorund and wait for her that will make you desperate less asttractive, and a less happy person in general. If it's meant to be it'll work out in the future, but there are no garuntees. I say try finding another girl.
Author Kain Highwind Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 Having these feelings is a greatest thing in the world, and from what it sounds like you two have a very special bond and great chemistry. I understand that you don’t want to rush sex. You have a feel awesome when spending time together, she makes you feel amazing, and you share mutual attraction. There is no time to rush, just enjoy the feelings that you’re having to the fullest. I believe you’re in love. good luck and stay well. Its not mutual (as much as I wish it was)... She just sees me as a friend
Author Kain Highwind Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 I understand that you can't let her slip through your fingers, you need to take action, be confident. Do something nice for her, show her that you want to see her happy. Good luck and stay well. I would but just the fact that she's in a relationship... I have no idea how it'd turn out
Green Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 I would but just the fact that she's in a relationship... I have no idea how it'd turn out well it would turn out like it always does... nothing would happen. Forget her
Cracker Jack Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 I've been in this situation before. As good as it can feel to think so highly of someone, it's quite difficult to continue when you realize they'll never you see the same way. I felt the same about a woman I considered my best friend--and we did things that people in relationships do. Unfortunately I was just a temporary rebound, and even though I did so much to show her that I loved her more than she could imagine, she just never felt as strongly for me as I did for her. So, I understand you not wanting to give this up, but you're doing more damage than good here. I'm not even friends with her anymore. She just changed into a different person after awhile. I'm glad it happened, because if I continued to have the same feelings for her, I'd be even worse now than I was back then.
Author Kain Highwind Posted November 6, 2010 Author Posted November 6, 2010 well it would turn out like it always does... nothing would happen. Forget her I think something may though... I mean, everyone thought we were together
counterman Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 If something's going to happen, it's going to be in her hands. She will bring it up. The thing is, I don't think you can meet and truly experience other women if you still like her and still around her. Best thing to do, I think, is to go No Contact. Tell her that you can't be just friends with her because of this feeling and you think that it's best if you guys don't contact each other anymore. I know you have this emotional attachment to her, but it'll hinder you greatly with your dating life if you continue. Unless you can detach you feelings for her and then be friends, fine but I doubt that would happen if you spend more time with her. Maybe she'll miss you and come around? Who knows. But, talk to other girls. Just remember, she knows she can have you, if she wanted something to happen, then she would have just pulled the trigger and made it happen. Don't be just a second resort to her.
Author Kain Highwind Posted November 6, 2010 Author Posted November 6, 2010 If something's going to happen, it's going to be in her hands. She will bring it up. The thing is, I don't think you can meet and truly experience other women if you still like her and still around her. Best thing to do, I think, is to go No Contact. Tell her that you can't be just friends with her because of this feeling and you think that it's best if you guys don't contact each other anymore. I know you have this emotional attachment to her, but it'll hinder you greatly with your dating life if you continue. Unless you can detach you feelings for her and then be friends, fine but I doubt that would happen if you spend more time with her. Maybe she'll miss you and come around? Who knows. But, talk to other girls. Just remember, she knows she can have you, if she wanted something to happen, then she would have just pulled the trigger and made it happen. Don't be just a second resort to her. I'm gonna talk to other girls but I just want to still be in her life at the same time.. I know that I can't get with her right now, so it wouldn't hinder me, I'd think
Green Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 I'm gonna talk to other girls but I just want to still be in her life at the same time.. I know that I can't get with her right now, so it wouldn't hinder me, I'd think your wrong it will hinder you. Good luck though
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