gsly Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 so last night i ended up sleeping with one of my friends..went out for drinks i was drinking all day and she was only for a bit..i was with her and her friend and we were playig games at the bar when one of her friends decided to try and hit on her(which he was failing miserably lol) she asked me what i was doing later and pretty much told her i was going to go and sleep after i left and she said the same..so we both left and i walked her back to her apartment where i kept on joking with her about her bed, long story short we ended up sleeping together. Im not sure if she wanted to do anything more, im not the type of guy to take advantage in these situations, so pretty much we ended up cuddling the whole night which i was fine with, and i walked her to work this morning. now do i txt her back? when? and what do i say? i do have feelings for this girl
jerbear Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Instead of hiding behind texts... why don't you tell her you are willing to explore those feelings by asking her out on a date?
Author gsly Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 i did ask her out on a date a few weeks back and she said yes..but we never really got any plans made..we just go out for drinks a couple times a week..
jerbear Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 make plans then. She already said yes to dating, that is your in. Ask her out, make plans, take the lead, go to Dave & Busters do something together.
Author gsly Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 but do i txt her right away saying i had a good night with her then make plans or ?????
jerbear Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 when is the next time you two get together? I would talk in person but if text is the next best thing then do it.
Author gsly Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 not sure..she bartends wed night so i might go down there then..i was thinking about txting her later tonight saying i had a good time with her and was going to suggest dinner at a sports resturaunt for wednesday since i have off then..she definately was giving me the signs last night....
Author gsly Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 so what you're saying is i should wait til tonight then to talk to her? or would it be alright to talk to her now?
denise_xo Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 so what you're saying is i should wait til tonight then to talk to her? or would it be alright to talk to her now? What is the problem with now? Is she at work?
Author gsly Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 done and done.. i guess we'll see how things go lol
alexlakeman Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 "sleep" with her in like you got layed? Or just actually closed your eyes and slept in the same bed? LOL If you f.cked her, then she's now your FWB :bunny::bunny::bunny: and good job! Otherwise you fail, lol
carhill Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Alex, I'm pretty sure traditional sex was not involved. Im not sure if she wanted to do anything more, im not the type of guy to take advantage in these situations, so pretty much we ended up cuddling the whole night which i was fine with, and i walked her to work this morning. Careful of the friendzone, OP. Be clear and precise about a *date*, both in content and time/place, and no more cudding or any girlfriend with penis stuff. *Dates*.
Trimmer Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Careful of the friendzone, OP. Be clear and precise about a *date*, both in content and time/place, and no more cudding or any girlfriend with penis stuff. OMG, that's a good point - hey, OP, are you sure your new girlfriend doesn't have a penis?
Author gsly Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 all i said was that i had a great time last night..(not those exact words lol ) shes working so i guess we'll go from there
Ruby Slippers Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Call her today and ask her out on a real date Friday or Saturday night. Dinner at a specific place and specific time would be perfect.
tami-chan Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 "sleep" with her in like you got layed? Or just actually closed your eyes and slept in the same bed? LOL If you f.cked her, then she's now your FWB :bunny::bunny::bunny: and good job! Otherwise you fail, lol LOL ...Alex..!!! good point. Most of us assumed he had sex with her....what about it, op?
alexlakeman Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 LOL ...Alex..!!! good point. Most of us assumed he had sex with her....what about it, op? Yeah, right? LOL .. I wanted to ask in the most correct way, lol... You watch, they slept dressed in the same bed, under different covers, and she just let him sleep there to be polite, and had no interest.. lol..
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