NoLove Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Sorry if its long i'll try to keep it short. I have been dating this girl for around 2 weeks or so she has been my girlfriend. Two people came to me and told me she said she never liked me and only went out with me because i begged her. Idk if the first part is true but when i first asked her to be my girlfriend a week after our first date she said no because she didn't like dating. Then later she called me and asked me if i was mad i told her i wasn't mad it was fine if she didn't like me. She tells me she does like me she just doesnt like dating then she talks my head off for like an hour and decides she does want to be my girlfriend. So i didn't beg her at all. When they told me she said that i just texted her and told her we were over. She admitted to saying it but said she only said it because she was confused because people were telling her she could do better and someone was making fun of me at the time and made her feel bad about dating me and she didn't mean it and she loves me and all this other crap. The thing is i know the guy who was talking crap about me and he was just messing with her he does that to everyone and its kinda messed up that she would deny liking me because he makes a dumb joke about me. Anyway another thing that pisses me off about her is she refuses to hang out with me at lunch because she wants to go hang out with her mexican friends. I can't really hang out with them because im black and one of the guys who hangs out in that group she has admitted to liking she never introduces me to him when she talks to him and if she sees him in the hall while we are walking to class she stops and completely ignores me. Its not like she can use me the most i have ever bought her was a movie ticket so i have spent like thirty dollars on her in the three weeks. So if she really doesnt like me i cant figure out why she doesnt dump me. Also if it matters she has been giving me some play usually like a bj every saturday and the next time my parents go out of town we are gonna do it so take that into consideration.
Madgick Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 She is a mess. I know you like the sex, but she's going to do a number on your self esteem and self respect. Normal, sane women don't behave like this.
ComeUndone Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Sounds like way too much drama to deal with. If it's like this in the first few weeks, imagine what it'll be like months from now. Yikes!
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