I'm not happy to receive this type of reply on a dating site but I appreciate the..

[PhillyDude]

Honesty. This has never happened to me before but I replied to a woman who was my type and she responded back saying-"I hope you are not offended but I don't feel the attraction"

 

So I removed all those pics because I never got that type of reply. So since she can say that to me, I won't have a problem saying that to any woman who replies to me who is not my type. Boy that was a KICK In the stomach.

[brainygirl]

Just because she's your type, doesn't mean you are her type, don't take it so personally.

[PhillyDude]

Just because she's your type, doesn't mean you are her type, don't take it so personally.

 

That's part of the frustration because i pay money to meet someone that's my type. What's funny I just took those pics last night and I shouldn't have put them on my dating profile until they were fully tested. So I take all the blame for what happen.

[brainygirl]

That's part of the frustration because i pay money to meet someone that's my type. What's funny I just took those pics last night and I shouldn't have put them on my dating profile until they were fully tested. So I take all the blame for what happen.

 

What were they of? your face? I hope you in a nice but not formal outfit?

[PhoenixLady]

So just because you "lose" the first time out, you take your marbles and go home? You sound like a sore loser. Anyway, you're giving one woman all the power over you. Is that what you want?

[a_woman]

That's part of the frustration because i pay money to meet someone that's my type. What's funny I just took those pics last night and I shouldn't have put them on my dating profile until they were fully tested. So I take all the blame for what happen.

 

Do you seriously believe there are photos that appeal to everyone?? When you put yourself out there it's inevitable that you experience rejection. If you are this sensitive you are probably not ready to date.

[PhillyDude]

What were they of? your face? I hope you in a nice but not formal outfit?

 

 

Yes face pics.

[brainygirl]

Yes face pics.

 

I would put something back up. i had pics of my dog up on OKCupid for a while, but now I have some face pics up. I actually got pretty good responces with the pic of the dog.

 

She just didn't like something in your profile more than likely.

 

And quit paying, use POF or OKcupid. Free and fun both.

[PhillyDude]

So just because you "lose" the first time out, you take your marbles and go home? You sound like a sore loser. Anyway, you're giving one woman all the power over you. Is that what you want?

 

 

I didn't say I removed my profile I just removed those pics. I take the opinion of a pretty woman very seriously so if I get poor feedback I make adjustments. I'm not going to stick with pics that are not working.

[PhillyDude]

Do you seriously believe there are photos that appeal to everyone?? When you put yourself out there it's inevitable that you experience rejection. If you are this sensitive you are probably not ready to date.

 

I know I won't appeal to everyone that was just something that rarely happens and I wasn't ready for it. She was pretty, childless, and close and when I saw she responded bac I was excited only to read the shocking reply. I'm more prepared to experience rejection when a woman doesn't reply back. So that was a NEW TYPE of rejection that shocked the hell out of me.

[PhillyDude]

I would put something back up. i had pics of my dog up on OKCupid for a while, but now I have some face pics up. I actually got pretty good responces with the pic of the dog.

 

She just didn't like something in your profile more than likely.

 

And quit paying, use POF or OKcupid. Free and fun both.

 

 

I do use free sites like craiglist and plentyoffish but I always use ONE pay site a month. I don't want to depend on free sites totally since the chances of meting someone of those sites are slim.