classof2014 Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Ok, so it seems like more and more young women (particularly Caucasian/American women) want guys that will basically be the girls slave (aka pay for everything, do whatever she says, have no backbone) and in return the girl "pays" the guy by occasionally giving him sex/BJs. It seems like girls no longer want confident or successful/smart guys because these guys are harder to control. Do you or any other women like guys like the ones I described above? BTW, Im 19 so maybe its something more common with the college aged group?
GooseChaser Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Where do you get that from? That's not what I want. I value confidence, a backbone, intelligence, and success in men. I don't require that they pay for me, but often men just prefer to be the one to pay as a way to show they care. I am a 21 year old Caucasian woman in college-- third year.
that girl Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 If you're not a troll, you need to get out more. This isn't a normal way to think, it is a sign of someone surronding themselves with the wrong people. No, women do not want slaves. They generally want what men want, someone they get along with and have get sex with (or since you're 19, maybe great make out sessions).
Surrealist Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 I understand most women want just the opposite - these types of guys appear clingy and typically wind up on the friend's list of women.
Citizen Erased Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 No self respecting person would be like that or would want that in a partner.
waynebrady Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 I don't know about that but here's the thing... Women want traditional guy's who will initiate and plan and pay for every date and initiate all contact by phone or text and basicly "chase" the woman. It's a one way street. If the man doesn't initiate every date and call everytime then he isn't putting in enough effort according to women. Women want the upper hand in relationships. They want to be loved more than they give love. I don't think they want the man to be a slave, they just want the man to put in all the effort and initiate everything. Men who do that are assertive and confident which is what they want I think.
Knittress Posted October 10, 2010 Posted October 10, 2010 Ok, so it seems like more and more young women (particularly Caucasian/American women) want guys that will basically be the girls slave (aka pay for everything, do whatever she says, have no backbone) and in return the girl "pays" the guy by occasionally giving him sex/BJs. It seems like girls no longer want confident or successful/smart guys because these guys are harder to control. Do you or any other women like guys like the ones I described above? BTW, Im 19 so maybe its something more common with the college aged group? The set-up you describe seems more old-school than something that's happening 'more and more.'
Author classof2014 Posted October 10, 2010 Author Posted October 10, 2010 Note: My experience may partly be due to my region (southern California). Here it seems like all the smart white guys go for asian chicks cause the white girls are too busy tanning, shopping, buying expensive things, partying, etc. All the guys that date these girls look like idiots and just gawk at them stupidly while they mindlessly pay for things in places like shopping malls. On the other hand, I didn't see this so much when I visited the east coast for college so it ma y be regional.
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