chancellor Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 I was very reluctant to admit it but here it is: I'm in my twenties and still a virgin. I've had my opportunities but I just lack confidence at times. I've been talking to this girl and we get along great. We're supposed to go out tomorrow and she said we'll have some late night fun and she was looking forward to it. What do you think she meant by that? I know it's silly but please understand how stressed I am. If she expects that we'll have sex I think I'm going to throw up (not that I don't want to do it).
tman666 Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 I was very reluctant to admit it but here it is: I'm in my twenties and still a virgin. I've had my opportunities but I just lack confidence at times. I've been talking to this girl and we get along great. We're supposed to go out tomorrow and she said we'll have some late night fun and she was looking forward to it. What do you think she meant by that? I know it's silly but please understand how stressed I am. If she expects that we'll have sex I think I'm going to throw up (not that I don't want to do it). You need to chillax brotha! Stop thinking so much and go with the flow. If you like her, then tell her and show her. She'll let you know how she feels...
Surrealist Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 Sounds interesting, let us know how you go young fella.
TouchedByViolet Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 Slow down. How far have you been with a women before? Why are you uncertain of yourself?
bac Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 Tell her that you want to be a virgin untill you get married.
Author chancellor Posted October 9, 2010 Author Posted October 9, 2010 Wow it's like everything is going so fast. She may have meant it in a platonic way, no? Maybe we'll just go to a club? I have never had sex with a woman. Heavy kissing and some touching but that's about it. Where I come from things aren't the same. It's not like I worry about intimacy or anything but I'm really afraid I would finish too quickly. But that's beside the point.
redmelon Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 just don't hump her like a crazed jackrabbit. I can remember, back in the day, THAT was the worst. Just relax and take things slow...definitely have a drink or 3.
Floridaman Posted October 9, 2010 Posted October 9, 2010 I was very reluctant to admit it but here it is: I'm in my twenties and still a virgin. I've had my opportunities but I just lack confidence at times. I've been talking to this girl and we get along great. We're supposed to go out tomorrow and she said we'll have some late night fun and she was looking forward to it. What do you think she meant by that? I know it's silly but please understand how stressed I am. If she expects that we'll have sex I think I'm going to throw up (not that I don't want to do it). If it's your first date, I doubt she's wanting to get into sex so fast. I don't think most want to advance that quick. It wouldn't be prudent IMHO. But if such an invitation occurs much later in the relationshp after you two have gotten to know each other better, and you're emotionally and physically interested in her, just tell her how you feel. Women are always saying how they want men to express their feelings. That may be a good opportunity. By all means, don't do something you don't feel comfortable about doing. That should apply to many other things in life, like someone getting you to take drugs other destructive things.
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