do you go one dates with guys you are not really attracted to just to be doing someth

[9Lives]

I wanted to know do you guys date people you are not attracted to just to be doing something or because you haven't met someone you like?

 

I was doing that for a while cause I got out of a relationship and I wanted to hang out with someone for company. not sexual with them. I'm now ggetting to the point of wanting to date guys who I think I like. I wonder how other females handle dating. sometimes it takes a long time to meet a man you like. what do u think?

[CrestfallenNoMore]

Nope, I have friends for that.

 

I only date people I'm interested in unless we've already both decided there's "nothing there" and are hanging out platonically. Which doesn't happen often. If a guy is on a dating Web site, I assume he's there to find someone to date or enter into a relationship with, not hang out with (unless he specifically says so).

[Knittress]

No. I'm an introvert and find interacting with strangers to be draining. I'll only bother to get past the awkward getting-to-know-you stage if I REALLY like them or we happen to get along so well that we feel like old friends anyway.

[9Lives]

so let's say you go to the gym and some guy approaches you. he wants your number cause he wants to take u out. at first glance, he looks okay so u say yes. you go out on the date. after the date u discover that u don't like him. after that u just tell him right?

[Banker Chick]

^^Yep. To do anything else would be stringing him along.

 

I hate the whole dating process so I'd rather stay home than go on a bad date. I'm not one of those "well at least it was nice conversation and good meal". Nope. I can have that with my daughter and a pint of Ben & Jerry's!

[CrestfallenNoMore]

^^Yep. To do anything else would be stringing him along.

 

I hate the whole dating process so I'd rather stay home than go on a bad date. I'm not one of those "well at least it was nice conversation and good meal". Nope. I can have that with my daughter and a pint of Ben & Jerry's!

 

Yeah, I find that I honestly feel WORSE when I come home from a bad date or a date where there just wasn't any "click" than I do when I stay home and do whatever I want.