tincanman99 Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 I have a very good friend that just finished telling me about how when she went for an exam the technician while hooking her up for a test basically leaned into her. She said how great it felt to have a male body pressed up against her and that its been such a long time since she had sex. She was laughing while she was telling me this and I laughed too. She and I have always been hot for each other but I have never acted on it because her life is complicated enough without me making it more complicated. Is this a hint or am I misreading it?
atlnay Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 Is this a hint or am I misreading it? That is really hard to gauge without knowing if you two banter about sex. Does she see you purely platonically? Was there ever a smidge of inappropriate contact between you two that never went further? Can you be directly suggestive to her and not lose her friendship if she rebuffs you...will she get pissed? A bit more info will be helpful
Author tincanman99 Posted October 8, 2010 Author Posted October 8, 2010 We have discussed sex in the past. Its always light, friendly and joking but never got into details of things we have done. We have discussed things that people do. Its never been purely platonic. I once slipped and told her that if it wasnt complicated I would have been all over her. She didnt freak out but was very flattered. No inappropriate contact ever. Though we can chat for hours. We have always had a good vibe and we just like each other. Without going into the details of her life, it is very, very complicated. And I dont want to make it worse for her.
atlnay Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 We have discussed sex in the past. Its always light, friendly and joking but never got into details of things we have done. We have discussed things that people do. Its never been purely platonic. I once slipped and told her that if it wasnt complicated I would have been all over her. She didnt freak out but was very flattered. No inappropriate contact ever. Though we can chat for hours. We have always had a good vibe and we just like each other. Without going into the details of her life, it is very, very complicated. And I dont want to make it worse for her. To be honest OP, not really sure a forum can help you decipher her intentions, especially if you and her having a relationship is going to be a complication. I almost want to say, just leave it alone since there is no point in knowing if it means something or no. Are you at the point where you can act on your feelings with her?
CrestfallenNoMore Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 You've said in both posts here (and told her) that you wouldn't act on anything because her life is too complicated and you don't want to make things worse for her. So...I'm wondering why you're wondering what she meant if it will change nothing?
Star Gazer Posted October 8, 2010 Posted October 8, 2010 I wouldn't talk to a guy I was interested in about how good it felt to have a random dude lean up on me.
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