irc333 Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 There's this person I know in real life that has a profile on a dating site, I know her through a lot of social functions and even when she started dating a guy through friends she met. They were a couple and broke up a few months later. Lately though, I still see them together (FWB?) who knows,r ight? But in her profile pics, one of them includes them together (I guess back when they were dating) I feel like suggesting to her as a friend to "loose that pic" because it's rather tacky. Man, it's tacky enough to have pics of you "cuddling up" with members of the opposite sex in your photos on dating profiles, but with an ex boyfriend? Yikes.! Think I should say something? Reason is, she's always complaining how she can never find a decent man, etc etc...and I think this is one of the problems.
Author irc333 Posted October 7, 2010 Author Posted October 7, 2010 Yeah, my profile is searchable....I would ask her, "So what's the nature of your relationship with....<his name>" Because I know him, too. lol How do you know she has a profile on a dating site? Do you browse the profiles and not have a profile of your own, or is your profile hidden? If she knows you have a profile, than there is nothing wrong with giving her some advice on hers. If she doesnt know that you know shes on there. I wouldnt say anything because some women can wig out with embarresment if "real life" people find out they are on a dating site. Hard to judge this one.
Crazy Magnet Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 I would bring it up in a joking manner next time she starts complaining about it. Let her know that it's a turn off to see pics on a DATING website with an ex. Tell her if she likes she pic of herself she can crop him out. I had some great pics I wanted to use but they had a guy in them so I cropped everything out but myself.
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