ROTCboys Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 So first im going to describe each guy so you know what im talking about. well me, im 14 and i am a freshmen in highschool. The first guy.. named jon.. is a senior and is 17.. he graduates in may. he really likes me. and i really like him. we hav been telling eachother this for like 2 weeks now. ive only hung out with him once. and i see him for maybe 5 mins a aday before school. but we are always texting eachother. hes not a player and his family knows all about me because he talks about me all the time. he says im flawless and the most beautiful girl in the school. i like him, but not THAT much.. now this guy seems amazing right? wrong. in july he leaves to go to north carolina. not for a vacation. not because hes moving, not for colege. but because hes in the army. he wants to be military police. thats great right" except i cant do a long distance relationship and have to go threw hs not having a boyfriend bc he is gone in the army.. he said once he lives the nxt time he would get to see me is in 2 years. i dont want to fall in love with im for a year and have to go threw the pain of him leaving me. My mom is not ok with me dating a senor so i would hav to go behind her back. The second guy.. named justin.. is a sophmore and is 15.. he graduates in 3 years. (its the begining of the year) and i really like him. we have been talking for about 2 months now. we have plans to hang out on monday for 2 hrs after school so he can teach me to drill. (im in rotc and havin probs with drillin) this isent like where the teacher set it up.i asked him if he would stay after on monday with me and he said yes.. not even knowin whyy.. i was on fb and decided to b bold and ask him for his number,, he gave it to me... and i txted it.. it said that it wasent a real number.. i was thinkin damit he dosent like me at all... so i got on fb and saw he was online i asked him about it and he said he has restrications on his fone so he cant txt till 3. i didnt believe him. we got to talkin on fb and he says he hates freshmen but he thinks im rly cool. i said thanks and that amber (his sis who is in my classes) said that he was talkin about me. and he was like haha yea.. and thats when it turned three and i asked him if i txted now if it would work.. well it did it was the right number and i said he scared me for a sec..lol. but anyways thats how it is with us right now. i think he might like me bc he talks to me all the time. we see eachother everyday and he wouldnt be leaving me next year. so i dont know which guy to chose.. if i chose jon me and justin(if he likes me) gets hurt.. id hav to go behind my moms back,, and my best friend also like him. if i chose justin jon gets hurt.. and i wouldnt hav to worry about going behind my moms back, and i wouldnt hav to worry about my best friend.. and i wouldnt hav to worry about him leaving this year.. i really need help soon. i need advice on what i should do and what i should say. i need detailed advice. pleasse help me. thank you. god bless
ezrajames Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 I only read half but it seems like you've already answered your own question. Don't fall for the guy who is leaving for 2 years.
PhoenixLady Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Forget the older one. He's leaving and besides you should listen to your mother. He's too old for you. Become friends with the younger one and see where it goes. And don't act desperate. I wouldn't have told him you were worried but too late now. Just act laid back and cool and be his friend. You can still be friends with the other one but not b/f and g/f.
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